tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post129051438393561885..comments2024-02-13T05:20:46.558-05:00Comments on A CUP OF JO: Do you feel comfortable naked?Joanna Goddardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18109285188206811042noreply@blogger.comBlogger120125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-89953972304864851162014-01-23T21:23:35.004-05:002014-01-23T21:23:35.004-05:00But I know my husband adores me and is happy to be...But I know my husband adores me and is happy to be stuck with me. I'm 32.<a href="http://taigamemobile24h.biz/game-manh-tuong/" title="manh tuong" rel="nofollow">manh tuong</a>ThaoCodehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08462093700691514209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-81265619383676558032013-10-16T15:50:51.845-04:002013-10-16T15:50:51.845-04:00I am comfortable with my body even though I have i...I am comfortable with my body even though I have imperfections. Even before I become an <a href="http://www.xxxbarbiezz.com" rel="nofollow">adult entertainer</a> I had issues with some things about it. Imperfections that can be changed and fixed by things you yourself do is a big key to changing your body or how you feel about it. I have always been average/fit but when I started working out and eating better I was able to see a big difference. If you have confidence then it helps also for you to not think bad things and turn into motivation to get even better. Also having ones that don't judge you is help. Hope I can help or make Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11269788468360527138noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-10622786221494027862013-08-27T12:02:16.160-04:002013-08-27T12:02:16.160-04:00This is totally me! I'm a former dancer who i...This is totally me! I'm a former dancer who is now a "curvy girl" (5'9" hourglass figure/size 8). My family would be ok walking around the house in undies but never naked. For me, I think it was all those years in the ballet dressing room that totally desensitized me to nudity. I am totally comfortable naked even though my in-laws find it very strange. I hope to raise my children with a high level of comfort around nudity.Genneahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02299126032317824185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-25894235936075657762013-08-26T16:28:45.688-04:002013-08-26T16:28:45.688-04:00So funny that you say that. I'm 34 too and I h...So funny that you say that. I'm 34 too and I have to say, I feel more comfortable naked now than I ever have before. I used to hate my little belly but who cares. I work out a lot but I love to eat. And I'm not ashamed :)Lindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07062428880044534354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-8534644001339922692013-08-26T13:07:33.753-04:002013-08-26T13:07:33.753-04:00I would say I'm at like a 7 now...and very rec...I would say I'm at like a 7 now...and very recently, too. I was on my honeymoon in the Caribbean on an island where my wife and I were the only Americans -- everyone else vacationing at the resort was European. Those ladies were SO COOL about their bodies!! We saw women in their late 60's rocking bikinis. They looked great, but it wasn't about that. It was about the fact that nobody cared. It was so inspiring, and I like to think of them as role models. Since then, I've turned a kinder (and prouder) eye on my own body :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-11879177151262021762013-08-26T05:27:10.032-04:002013-08-26T05:27:10.032-04:00When I married my husband I was already pregnant a...When I married my husband I was already pregnant and so I didn't have a job. He had a really good job though so I was able to stay home and take care of our son when it was born. When we had our second child we moved to a bigger house, but then strange things started to happen. Things would fly off the walls and doors would slam at night. Our oldest son talked about seeing figures and hearing voices. We consulted a medium and they said the house was haunted. After living there about a year more with only minor occurrences we moved out. That was when the bad luck started to happen. Everything started to fail, with my husband's job, our money and our luck in general. I went back to the same medium and they told me that a spirit had followed me and placed a curse upon me for disturbing it and not being respectful in the previous house. He tried to remove it but was unable. The misfortune kept going on and getting more severe as I tried to search out someone to break the curse. But when I found Dr.Azonto spell he finally did it. Things started turning around almost immediately after he cast the spell and have been great from there! This was really a miracle for us, thank you . azontotemple@yahoo.com spell from the bottom of my heart!<br />Posted by. miss Sandra ChaliAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-52003246472595064222013-08-25T08:12:09.201-04:002013-08-25T08:12:09.201-04:00I'm comfortable with my body. Always have been...I'm comfortable with my body. Always have been. I'm disturbed that many of the women's comments on this thread link being comfortable with their bodies to a man/being in a relationship. It has to come from you first. That's a big reason I got into nude modeling-- there's little representation of "real" women in art, advertising and the like. But since that's where women get their standards, we need to change the standards. <br /><br />http://randommusings.abigailekue.com<br />http://abigailekue.comAbigailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02676617514205166307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-63261412502608933922013-08-24T17:51:19.348-04:002013-08-24T17:51:19.348-04:00I know this doesn't make any sense ... but I f...I know this doesn't make any sense ... but I feel more comfortable walking around naked (not that I do that outside of my home), than I do in a bikini. I'd rather go nude on a beach than wear a bikini ... not sure why!?Jolene - EverydayFoodiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11490816021651698189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-31892193105313407192013-08-24T13:28:21.874-04:002013-08-24T13:28:21.874-04:00I was talked into going to my first nude beach at ...I was talked into going to my first nude beach at the age of 25. I was petrified that people were going to judge me there. It was actually an incredible experience and I have ONLY gone to nude beaches since.nectarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06887978546147501822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-63060692270928237632013-08-24T13:27:58.740-04:002013-08-24T13:27:58.740-04:00I was talked into going to my first nude beach at ...I was talked into going to my first nude beach at the age of 25. I was petrified that people were going to judge me there. It was actually an incredible experience and I have ONLY gone to nude beaches since.nectarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06887978546147501822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-57452878170252354682013-08-24T07:09:48.955-04:002013-08-24T07:09:48.955-04:00Plus, in my school -I'm from Barcelona– whe ha...Plus, in my school -I'm from Barcelona– whe had mixed changing rooms till we were 10. And then I studied Dramatic Art and no theatre college has separate changing rooms. And, as fleur_delicious comment above me says, when your body is a part of your "work" (actors, dancers) you become seeing it just as body.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09222139839583460682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-87339587137015872322013-08-24T07:01:46.256-04:002013-08-24T07:01:46.256-04:00I'm 21 and I've been comfortable naked sin...I'm 21 and I've been comfortable naked since I was born, with a little pause between my 13-15 years old. I like my body and I feel good nudey. At home everybody is used to nudity and nobody pays you any attention, And it's pretty much comfy!!Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09222139839583460682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-67110699370645441312013-08-23T14:56:51.035-04:002013-08-23T14:56:51.035-04:00I'm pretty comfortable. I think it's becau...I'm pretty comfortable. I think it's because I grew up figure skating and ice dancing. There was only one bathroom which also served as our collective locker room, where we'd all strip down after 6am ballet practice and suit up for the ice. Similarly, with dance, I think you get used to a body just being a body. You spend enough time pressed against someone else and it just becomes something that you do together. My dance partners and I would have long conversations about philosophy and science and literature, occasionally halting for counts of "1-2-3, 4-5-6, 1-2-3, 4-5-6." =) These days I try to be conscientious of my neighbours and at least throw on a sport bra and tie a wrap skirt around my waist on a really hot day, since I always have the blinds and drapes open and I don't like to make them uncomfortable!fleur_delicioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01500249000124155885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-3376736741007597912013-08-23T13:54:50.179-04:002013-08-23T13:54:50.179-04:00I've always been comfortable naked. Not when a...I've always been comfortable naked. Not when a teenager and living with my family, but ever since leaving home even when 18/19 I was comfortable walking around naked with boyfriends. Never understood the whole covering up lights off thing. I wonder what it is that makes some people more comfortable than others? as I am by no means the 'ideal' media approved shape, but I always liked the shape I am.<br /><br />LauraLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08663015782262502499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-87743851793868159442013-08-23T10:49:33.902-04:002013-08-23T10:49:33.902-04:00That is one part of how I deal with my mind if I l...That is one part of how I deal with my mind if I look in the mirror and think hmph - reminding myself that it is because of my body that I can do this and that and not in spite of it.Kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12443865051034603807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-6565221513947693252013-08-23T10:46:46.522-04:002013-08-23T10:46:46.522-04:00This made me laugh and reminded me of an advert th...This made me laugh and reminded me of an advert that was on tv a few years ago for Dove antiperspirant/deodorant in which the woman was prancing around and asking this guy what his favourite part of her body was, to which his response was to stroke her underarms. I always found it very hilarious, because seriously?!Kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12443865051034603807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-2016582031874960452013-08-23T10:43:51.320-04:002013-08-23T10:43:51.320-04:00I think I'm a similar way - my confidence in m...I think I'm a similar way - my confidence in my naked self came with the confidence to strip off and do whatever with someone who loves me. In fact, I'm probably more confident then than clothed, because of the situation. Maybe because there is no-one to compare to ,too! Even in my favourite clothes, standing next to my sister makes me feel fat just because out of the two of us, I'm the larger (though certainly not fat). Even reminding myself that she is probably equally self conscious of looking like a stick insect doesn't help very much to stop the self-conscious thoughts, which just don't appear when naked!Kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12443865051034603807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-3802467513315727152013-08-23T10:22:50.553-04:002013-08-23T10:22:50.553-04:00I've more than comfortable sans clothing. I bl...I've more than comfortable sans clothing. I blame it on my Dutch heritage - the Dutch being pretty liberal and generally relaxed about nudity. My husband has to remind me to put clothes on, although really only for the 4 or 5 months of the year that it's warm enough. And he's not complaining by any means, having an appreciative partner certainly helps. It hasn't changed for me with age or motherhood. My two young sons have inherited the nude gene and are very happy naked. Although now that my eldest is six I'm starting to be a bit more discreet when I get out of the shower. He thinks mummy nude is pretty darn hilarious :)Karinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08307044736760471635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-81656928892250109512013-08-23T09:50:57.619-04:002013-08-23T09:50:57.619-04:00My husband is constantly asking me to put clothes ...My husband is constantly asking me to put clothes on since I frequently forget that we have almost more windows than walls. I am 34, but have always been this way. I don't have a perfect body but I am pretty comfortable with it.s.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04537657212437333874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-27751939162494817732013-08-23T09:21:14.884-04:002013-08-23T09:21:14.884-04:00Hmmm on a scale of 1 to 10? I'd say a 2 ... I ...Hmmm on a scale of 1 to 10? I'd say a 2 ... I am not at all comfortable being naked. The closest I will get is when I'm alone in the flat (and my flatmates are out) and I walk around topless to and from the bathroom. That's about it. Otherwise, it just feels a bit "airy" ... <br /><br />It is strange, though, because both my parents are VERY happy with their bodies and pretty much walk around naked all the time! They have no inhibitions. My brothers and I are all quite conservative with covering up. So I guess we missed that gene:)<br /><br />http://unpublishedworksofme.blogspot.co.uk/Unpublishedlifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11347038417654733331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-70083804282921058052013-08-23T08:56:52.316-04:002013-08-23T08:56:52.316-04:00I finally realized one day that loving my body doe...I finally realized one day that loving my body does not necessarily mean loving how it looks or loving all of my physical imperfections. It can simply mean loving what my body enables me to do, loving that it takes me from place to place and enables me to be with the people I love. I don't love my body in spite of my imperfections, but I love it as a whole, including every part.Audreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13950633203803358542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-71193323553698201762013-08-23T06:30:59.041-04:002013-08-23T06:30:59.041-04:00God, I wish I could feel like all the commenters a...God, I wish I could feel like all the commenters above... I'm 34, just had a baby, am wearing a swimsuit for the first time in my life and even though I am totally grateful for my healthy body and baby, I just can't stand looking myself in the mirror or being naked.<br />I never felt less beautiful or elegant. I just feel fat, with a jiggle belly and huge thighs. If I could grade myself now, it would be a -5. Hopefully, next year I will look better ;)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09015929845739120555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-942373697537397532013-08-23T05:05:22.048-04:002013-08-23T05:05:22.048-04:00I think your daughters have a fantastic role model...I think your daughters have a fantastic role model. It really isn't about being perfect is it, but the mindset that you are fabulous and with that comes the confidence.Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00380726498720901418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-18719510041832370342013-08-23T05:00:54.829-04:002013-08-23T05:00:54.829-04:00I have two younger daughters too and your comment ...I have two younger daughters too and your comment is a really good reminder. I do say how strong and healthy they are all the time, trying to use those sorts of words but of course I also tell them how beautiful they are, inside and out.Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00380726498720901418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28060897.post-9744105049102812152013-08-23T04:59:21.098-04:002013-08-23T04:59:21.098-04:00He's a keeper :)He's a keeper :)Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00380726498720901418noreply@blogger.com