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Thursday, February 21, 2013

Have you ever said "I love you" first?

When I started dating Alex, I knew I loved him early on. I'm usually pretty guarded, but since I was so enamored, those three words lingered dangerously on the tip of my tongue. So, after just a couple weeks, as we were falling asleep, I couldn't help nervously whispering, "I think I'm falling in love with you." His reply? "I think I'm already there."

HURRAY AND THANK GOD.

Obviously, however, it doesn't always go so smoothly. In past relationships, I've said "I love you," and the other person just said, "Thank you"—or vice versa. Ouch. Then you have to just sit there with a big I-love-you elephant in the room for the rest of the night.

It's nerve wracking because, as Seinfeld says, "if you don't get that return, that's a pretty big Matzo ball hanging out there."
Have you ever been the first to say I love you, or do you prefer to wait?

(Top photo of us by Max Wanger, back when we were newly engaged and just babies!)

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Mary Kate said...

No! Like a chicken I always waited to hear it first. It was always well worth the wait though :)

Angry Asian said...

yes. if you feel it, say it.

i told my fiance that i loved him first and tho he didn't respond in kind, i was ok with that.

emilyvannah said...

I have a funny story about how my boyfriend and I said I love you. It was maybe 2 months into us dating and I knew I was in love with him. I thought that would be way to early to say it to him. I was afraid of rushing it and scaring him away. But one night we were cuddled up on the couch watching a movie and I decided what the heck I'll do it. So I looked at him and said, "guess what?" (My nervous way of starting.) and I was going to say I love you after he said what. However, when I said guess what he looked at me and said I love you. That was 4 years ago this month. I give him a hard time about beating me to it.


Emily
eageremily.blogspot.com

Molly S said...

He said it first!! We were in New Orleans and had only been dating a month or so. I was still hung up on an ex and MADE myself say it back!!! Ahhh!!! I even tripped over the words so hard trying to say it. I felt bad. I think he could tell... Matzo ball for sure. Little did I know, I was on my way to falling seriously, seriously in love. Five and a half years later, still there! The words come speeding out of my mouth any chance I get!!

Janelle @ Two Cups Of Happy said...

I said it first and it was an awful, awkward moment when I didn't get it back. Luckily, when he actually said it months later it meant so much more :)

Amie Willoughby said...

hahaha, poor George!

Rebecca Alexis said...

Oh I think my heart fell in love with your hubby when I read his sweet reply to you! right.out.of.a.movie. so sweet. xxoo

Lisa said...

loved this line: "then you just have to sit there with a big I-love-you elephant in the room"

I was the first to say it, and he didn't reciprocate, but he eventually did later on! It was totally fine.

Lindsay said...

I did say it first. Like you, we were falling asleep, and I said, softly, "I love you." He replied, "What did you say?" and then, when I said, "you heard me," "I love you, too."

Now we're married, have a 2 year old, and I'm 25 weeks pregnant with our second daughter. :)

Ann Howell Brown said...

Love this story. See, even with a broken computer you're inspiring the world and spreading love! :)

hooleywithaz.com said...

i was the first to say it with my husband, but that was the first time i had been the first to say it! it worked out pretty well for us.

Kathy said...

hah! My husband and I have the debate about WHO said it first! I distinctly remember saying it on NYE before bed, but apparently he was either passed out or a little too drunk to remember. He says it was a month later when we were at a friend's house and all I said in response was "cool". But I only said cool because I had already thrown it out there - it was cool that he felt the same way!

But, generally, in relationships, I think I've always been the one to throw it out there first. I'm not a feelings-holder-inner :)

Christina said...

My then-boyfriend now-husband said it first, probably a month after we started dating. I found an eyelash on his face and had him make a wish on it, and after blowing it away I asked him what he wished for. I'll always remember his sweet, almost shy response, "I wished I would have the courage to tell you that I think I'm falling in love with you." Ahhh! Of course I reciprocated. :)

Great post, Joanna. Made my day!
xoxo

BookishPenguin said...

When my husband and I had been dating about three weeks, I said it in passing - like, "Look, I love you and all, but those sneakers are awful." Something easy like that, not even realizing what I was saying until it came out - then I clapped my hand over my mouth, like whoops. But we both realized it was true. That's why it came out so easily.

That was 2005. We married in 2008 and are going strong. :)

jm said...

This clip is hilarious! I love how Seinfeld makes great episodes about the little things we all experience! Great post!!! I would never go first.

cassiopeia said...

he said it first. i was 17 and he was my first boyfriend. i had no idea what i was feeling but i guess he was sure way before i was. we've been together since then - 13 years ago :)

Natasha said...

I definitely have! My husband and I knew each other for 6 years before we got together, and I was always in love with him. He is 6 years older than I am, so it wasn't really practical to tell him before I was 18, you know legalities and all. Since I'm not one to keep emotional baggage, one night 2 weeks after my 18th birthday we were hanging out on a beach, drinking and talking, and I just couldn't take it anymore and blurted out: "I've been in love with you for 6 years!" He thought I was just drunk, but not the case, the alcohol just made it easier to say. It took him a few months for the events of that night to sink in! He was my first and only boyfriend too, btw, so that was my only experience expressing such heavy feelings to a person! So I said it first, he totally reciprocated, it was the start of our relationship and now nearly 12 years later, we are married and have 2 kids!

heykay said...

I have a similar story to Emily's...My boyfriend and I were laying together one night and I kept trying to get him to focus so I could tell him something (that I was in love with him), but he kept changing the topic. Eventually, I told him I was trying to tell him something...and then he said it! He knew all along that's what I was going to say and he wanted to say it first...hence trying to get me off topic.

Ashleigh More said...

I prefer to wait but I couldn't with my fiance, the joy on his face when I said it was amazing, he hadn't wanted to be first either. We have said it every day since :-) xox

Shruti Kapoor said...

I don't wait...i am usually the first one to say it aloud :)
Btw this is a lovely picture of you guys. Such a sweet story.

Erin said...

Gorgeous photo! And what a sweet memory. I'm ready to say it, but waiting due to nerves :)

AP said...

I said it first - and more sort of yelled it at him, like DUH isn't it obvious! He was surprised I think and maybe a little scared. And the next morning he said, "I've been up all night thinking about what you said, and I love you too." (Inner brain high five to myself!)

The F Mode said...

My boyfriend and I had been together about one month when we were in bed one evening and he started babbling on about our relationship. I knew that he was trying to say "I love you" but I could tell his nerves were getting the better of him, so I told him I loved him. He said it straight back and I could tell he was relieved. We laugh about it now because he hates to admit that I said it first.

Catie said...

Yep! My husband was the first person I said "I love you" to (we were babies when we started dating!) and I said it first. He was so afraid of scaring me off that he'd been biting his tongue for weeks, and I couldn't take it anymore so I blurted it out one night. It was perfect. :)

Danhiskka said...

Awww, that's so sweet!!!!
I'm weeping in the office THANKS A BUNCH.

Shasta said...

I waited to say it with my husband. Even after he said it to me, I was incredibly afraid to say it back to him even though I did love him. I was still afraid of it since I had been hurt in the past for saying I love you and it was my way to guard myself. I think after about 4 days of dreading saying it back to him I finally just blurted it out. Actually, I think I kinda screamed it at him. LOL

CP and KW said...

i've never said it first, but i think i've felt it first. :) i've been lucky that it worked out for the most part with past boyfriends and the current one, especially.
kw, ladies in navy

Brooklynbee said...

Oh I'm never the first to say it, I'm always so tepid about jumping into new relationships - even new friendships! I think the funniest (and bittersweet) was when I was dating a guy who was really, really sweet but super messed up at the time (we're still friends to this day) and he said "I love you - tell me you love me, even if you don't mean it. I don't care. I just want to hear you say it."
My husband first told me, "I think I'm falling in love with you" and I think I just responded by kissing him - then a few weeks later he just said "You know I love you, right?" And I said "I know. I love you too!"

Megan F said...

Oh, man is that a sweet story, Joanna! I think I've said it first ONCE -- but otherwise have always waited for the other person to say it.

When my husband and I were dating (long distance for the first year and a half), we went to dinner one weekend while I was visiting him. As we were looking over the menu he started saying, "I have something I want to say to you." To this day he makes fun of me about how I straightened up in the chair, I guess to ready myself for whatever he was about to say. It was the best night.

Gianna said...

I said it once over instant messenger! I was having a party and went upstairs to say a quick hi to him over aim. I ended the conversation with the dreaded "I love u." His response was "have fun"..... Forgive me I was tipsy and in college BUT 6 years later he says it to me as much as he can!

athomewithbethany said...

I said it first, and for a long time he didn't reciprocate ... but he warmed up to me. Now we've been married almost 4 years and are so in love we can hardly stand it :) As weird and awkward as the first "I love yous" can be, it gets better -- now we are always telling each other "I love you," whether it's on the phone, at night before falling asleep, or just anytime.

Bethany

Lou said...

I am a very guarded person too and it takes a while for me to allow myself to say it. But with my now boyfriend, it felt right.

Lou

www.thekeypieces.co.uk

madys46 said...

Like bookishpenguin I said it totally on accident! We had been together a few months and were in the grocery store (aka the least romantic setting ever) doing a last-minute shop for my family's annual harvest party. He came over holding a few things I had forgotten, and I was just like "oh, thanks - love you!"

I was so embarrassed! When we got home and I had stopped being awkward, he pulled me in really close and told me he loved me too - and that he had been waiting for the perfect time to say it. Whoops!

He then proceeded to meet all my family and friends.

While I don't recommend my method, we've been together three years, so I guess it worked. :)

margaux said...

i said it first, and i love hanging that over my husband's head! ( ; it was terrifying, but i figured i had nothing to lose. if it freaked him out and ended things, well then, he wasn't the guy for me, right? it took him a little longer to get comfortable saying it to me, but i found it very empowering to be the first one to throw the "i love you" confetti into the air.

moseyblog said...

So cute! My now husband was the one who said it first after dating for only 3 weeks. My reply: "Already? It's a bit soon don't you think?" Hahah oops! Poor guy. He got his 'I love you' from me about a month later. I couldn't say it until I felt ready.

gustoandgrace said...

I love this most! It is sweet and funny! My fiance said "I love you" first. And at the perfect moment! Later, he told me he was really nervous because he had never said it first to anyone. <3

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kate365til30 said...

hahah! This post cracked me up! I said "I love you" first to my now fiancee and he said "thank you". Granted I said it early but still! We now laugh about it because it says so much about the type of people we are. I'm wide open and Brian is a bit more guarded :) It all worked out in the end though! Can't get him to stop saying it now!
xoxox
Kate
www.365til30.com

Emily said...

I said it first! I knew I was in love with him after a month or so, but it took me another two months to work up the courage to say it. Two weeks later, I was seriously considering breaking up with him (I mean, where was this going if he didn't love me back?) when he finally said those three little words. He wanted to be sure how he felt rather than tell me what I wanted to hear. It'll be 9 years this May. :)

Sarah said...

Aww that's cute :)

Sarah said...

He said it first. I think in generally men like to be the ones to ask out, say I love you, propose, etc.
That clip is so funny! I'm actually going to see Seinfeld tonight!!

bri said...

i dropped the 'i love you' bomb first with my husband. we were going to college in different states (him notre dame, me pittsburgh) and the first time i came to visit him after a few months of being apart i said it. i whispered it so quietly i think i was kind of hoping he wouldn't hear me :) but he did and thank goodness he said it back!

Oblio and Arrow said...

I think its great to just say it if you feel it! If it scares the other person off, maybe they aren't right for you! My (now husband) told me he loved me only a few weeks in. I was so guarded at that time I couldn't say it back, even though I think I felt it then. The best part was that he wasn't offended that I couldn't say it back yet, and waited until I was! We are happily married for 5 years and been together for 13!

Natalie - The Senses Five said...

I've only said it to one person, and that is my husband. He is definitely the romantic one of the relationship. I wanted to say it by our third date. But we had a bit of a rocky time our first year, so I waited until he was ready.

Mina said...

I told my husband I loved him first, after 3 months of dating. And he didn't say it back! He needed a little more time to be sure, and after I got past my initial hurt, I was able to understand and lay off. He told me about a month later and we've been together 9 years!

collette said...

That is so romantic :). Nope, I've had two "great loves" and one is my husband, and both times they said it first. My husband said it two months after we starting dating. I can't remember the other one, which is as it should be.

Kelly Still Employed! said...

I said it first to my now-husband, and he didn't say it back! We had only been together for a few months, and I had just done something to help him with a family crisis. It was pretty big, and he was feeling really guilty and worried about burdening me. I told him it was no burden; I did it because I loved him. He smiled at me and hugged me tight but didn't say it back. In fact, he didn't say it back for about another year. Turns out there were some hang-ups and issues at play regarding verbalizing feelings and emotions, including (and maybe especially) love. It was really hard for me, and it took awhile to work through it. But now he's just a squishy pile of love, and we've been married for over six years!

Lauren Knight said...

No! I mean, I was always too afraid to be the typical girl... but looking back, I think it was silly not to make myself vulnerable. Now I say "I love you" all the time to my husband and three little boys! SO important!

drew elizabeth said...

I prefer to wait! The first time my boyfriend told me he loved me I just looked at him and said "ARE YOU SERIOUS....?" I wanted to say it back but instead that is what I blurted out.

Maddy from MPDaily said...

glad to hear that I am not the only one! I said it first after a really great weekend with my boyfriend. It was just bubbling up and since he was the one that pursued me, I wanted to make sure to say it first (I wanted to let him know that I wasn't going to just say "me too"). I think he was surprised but excited him and he said it back pretty quickly.

Rebecca said...

I was the first. I felt it creeping in around the edges after 6 weeks, and finally spilled the beans at 5 months. He ("he" being my partner of nearly ten years and husband of nearly 6) carefully replied "I like you very much, but I am not ready to say that yet." He did say it... eventually... after we'd been together nearly two years!! I still give him endless crap about that (in fact, at our wedding four years into our relationship, we played Cake's "Perhaps, Perhaps, Perhaps" at our cake-cutting as an inside joke).

Here's the important thing: actions speak louder than words, and his actions communicated what his words could not EONS before he finally said "I love you". I think my response by the time he finally said it was, "Yeah, I know."

Laura said...

Yes, I was the first. After a few weeks of dating, my boyfriend and I perfectly knew that we loved each other, but he was kind of guarded too :) And then, one very romantic evening, while embracing each other, I just couldn't hold it anymore and right after a tiny kiss on the cheek I told him "I love you". He said "I love you too", and after that, we've said to each other every signle day <3

Sadie said...

I was kind of mean to my husband when he said it first. When he said, "I think I'm in love with you," all I could say was, "Well... let me know when you're sure!" He was so embarrassed! In my defense, I had previously been burned by someone who said he loved me, but, you know... that didn't mean much? I was so paranoid after all the word games that it was hard for me to read my husband's shyness as anything but bet-hedging.

I know I said it to guys in previous relationships, but I actually can't remember any of them!

Jenna Senter said...

I said it first! My husband and I had known each other for years before we started dating, but when we finally got together we both knew immediately that we were meant to be! From the get go he subtly told me that he wouldn't be the first to say, "I love you." All of his past relationships had been with girls who didn't really know how to handle a guy's emotions and so he had become very guarded about showing them (but, we've worked through most of those issues and now he is the most vocal person about what he's feeling!) ANYWAY, he kept telling me that the only things that he would do "first" is ask a girl out on a date and ask her to marry him.. I waited what seemed like a lonnnnnng time to finally say it, in part because I was so nervous, but also because I was worried that he would regret not being the first to say it. When I finally did say it it was such a relief and so exciting.. I still get thrills when I tell him I love him!

That ended up being a lot longer than I meant it to be.. Oops! Loved the post!

kim said...

The only time I said to someone I was responded to with ' are you sure you mean that? Its a bit early"

Alexandra Fouracre said...

I said it first... by accident. After a month or so of going out with boyfriend (we're still together 3 years later), we were cuddled up in bed watching a film and it felt so cozy and lovely I kinda just blurted out 'I love you' but he went 'Huh?' as if he hadn't heard (I have a habit of mumbling) and I went 'Ohhh nothing... *PANIC*'.... after the film had finished, he goes "You know when you said 'I Love You' earlier...? I love you too." Still get a big smile on my face when I think about it :)

Chloe Moon said...

I waited for the perfect moment and my boyfriend blurted it out one day and I was honestly relieved he did it first!! =) It was perfect!

Ergo - Blog

Tracy Carson said...

How beautiful! I don't think a screenwriter could have written the exchange more eloquently. My husband had vowed to himself that the only woman he would utter the words, "I love you" to would be the woman he would marry. So holding strong at 26, after only 7 weeks of dating his 4 years younger girlfriend who was still in college, he turned to her and said, "I can't keep it in anymore, I LOVE you!" and then just to make sure he was confident he had in fact said it, once more he proclaimed, "I love you!" 11 years later, we treasure that we are each others one and only loves.

Rebecca Norris said...

I love this - such a romantic story :)

My husband said it first. I was blown away because he had never said it to anyone and I was fresh out of another relationship so I hesitated and I was a bit scared he might have said it too soon and regret it. I returned the sentiment the next day when I wondered why on earth I wasn't doing. I'd known from the get-go but didn't want to misinterpret my feelings because it was so soon after another relationship.

That was 11 years ago :)

Dahlia said...

I was the first to say "I love you" to my husband, and it was before we were actually a couple! We had become the best of friends in a short span of time in college, and I knew I loved him early on as well. It was so against my character to do so. I'm so shy and usually so guarded, and he was also my first (and only) love. I could feel he was trying to express his feelings for me though, so I just went ahead and took a chance. It worked! It sure did surprise him though!

Caitlyn said...

My fiance is the only one I've said it to... and he sort of said it first. We were sitting facing each other with my knees between us and he sort of mumbled something into my knees. And I said "Did you just say you love me?" and he said "Yes" and I replied "I love you too!". So he started it, but I kind of said it for both of us :) But then he said it again so I could hear it. Yay! I'm so glad he was my first, I almost said it to my boyfriend before him, but I realize now, that wasn't love!

Lady Grey said...

I've never done it! But I've definitely felt it first and cowardly waited to say it as a response only. So silly!
xo

Marissa said...

Oh goodness. I did say it first (luckily he said it back). Because it after a party at which I had too much champagne and he was sitting with my in the bathroom after I'd gotten sick. So romantic.

Mary said...

My boyfriend said it first and I followed a few weeks later. I love how you were still a little guarded with saying I think I am... And his answer also so utterly sweet and eloquent just like it should be for two writers I guess!

Aya said...

My boyfriend earlier that day talked about a friend of his saying "I love you" too soon and it ruined everything, at which point I felt like I was suddenly not supposed to say anything. That of course made me feel like I HAD to say it, and all day I made myself sick not saying anything. I'd look at him and worry that the words would just spill out. That night, on a midnight ferry to Messina (no, not even joking), he told me "actions speak louder than words and I'm not going to tell you that I love you." Which I thought was dumb and I wasn't going to let that stop me. So I told him, "that's fine. But I love you." A few days later he caved. Whether he said it or not, I knew it was true, but it's nice to hear the words.

Ashley said...

I knew my (now) husband loved me before I felt sure of things myself. And he knew I liked to take things slowly. So, unfortunately, I came to realize I'd have to say it first! He was the first man I really loved, so it was a BIG moment to have to say it for the first time. He could feel my heart beating in my chest, that's how nervous I was! And finally, I spit it out... in French. Je pense que je t'aime. I couldn't even say it in English! Thankfully, he knows enough French to know what I said, and he whispered it right back, in English. I get a flutter in my stomach just thinking about it.

Gold Muse said...

I too said I love you first to my husband. I was in the moment and it just slipped out, I couldn't really believe I had let that happen since that was a no-no in my book. But thankfully he replied with I'm in love with you too. Ah...memories. (:

http://amillionreasonswhy7.blogspot.com/

Allie said...

I said "I love you" you first to my boyfriend. I couldn't keep it in any longer, and I had a feeling he felt the same way, so I got up the courage to say it to him one morning in bed. He let me know that he felt the same way :) I'm glad I said it first! There are no rules in love.

Alexandra E said...

I said it first to my boyfriend of 9 years, it was after being on the phone all night long for the 100th time and I said "I feel like we should be saying I love you when we hang up", it just felt right, luckily he felt the same way. :)

redpeeptoepumps said...

My husband said "I love you" almost a full year before I was ready/willing to say it. It made for some awkward moments, but I think it was better than saying it just because he had (he might feel differently!). I think it also taught us some good lessons about being patient with each other.

Molly said...

I was dating a guy but we were kind of on and off since I kept coming and going from college in a different state. One time I was home on break I felt like it was the right moment and I said, "I love you." He responded with "I love you, too" and then followed up immediately with, "Now if you would just stick around long enough we could work on BEING in love." Sooooo, did he love me like a little sister? Jeeze. That was the moment I decided I was not actually in love with him and never looked back. Happily married to another guy and so so so glad I'm not with that first guy.

Andrea said...

I know I felt it first but wanted to wait for him to say it first. He's one of those molasses slow guys to come around lol. Well he wrote it first! Yes, wrote. Weird? Maybe. But it was in the sweetest Valentjne message in a giant fortune cookie! He hasn't actually said it yet but after reading all these stories, I think I'm gonna beat him to the punch and actually say it first. Still counts right? ;)

Andrea
anakalui

Allyson said...

Aww that's so sweet how it happened with you and Alex... could be a scene in a movie! The first time my now husband told me he thought he was falling in love with me (it seems to always start that way... they "think" they're falling, just to be safe!) he was pretty intoxicated. We were 21 and on a bus home from a sorority dance. I wasn't even sure he remembered the next day! Fortunately, he said it again sober a couple days later, and has said it every day for the past 7 years!

Anke said...

Nope and my boyfriend made me wait 1 year before he said it! But he's the worrier in the relationship, so it was good that it came from him first:) I will wait for him to propose too, even though I think that's quite old fashioned.

tragicsandwich said...

I did with Mr. Sandwich. I knew it was true, and I wanted to say it whether or not he felt the same. He said, "I love you, too." But it was a very long few seconds!

Baybay Mama said...

I think love can develop over time to become stronger and stronger but there is a form of love when you have a connection with someone for the first time. I know I had love at first sight with my husband's dog who brought us together!

trinaenriquez said...

Somehow you managed to go from poignant to hilarious in two sentences! :)

theshellhammer said...

Gosh, Max captures such beauty and love!

I fell in love with my boyfriend on February 20, 2009 at a hockey game when, instead of caring that Ohio State was losing to Michigan, we chatted the entire time. We had been friends but that was the moment I knew. We started "testing the waters" a few weeks later. (I say that because he was moving to NYC after graduation to work 100 hours a week as a banker and I had 2 years of school left.)

Flash forward 10 months when I was visiting him in New York, he ended up working all weekend, it was the second time I'd seem him in 6 months and he was so stressed. I sent him a text that said "we need to talk" just to make him come home so I could tell him how proud I was of him and that I loved him. The words didn't come out eloquently at all and I could barely make eye contact but alas, he responded with "Either you were going to break up with me (which you should have) or you were going to tell me you loved me. I'm happy it was the latter and I love you, too."

I love this post and your story.

--Alex

Kaitlyn Petry said...

My boyfriend and I used to saw "rawr" (which means I love you in dinosaur) one day he was rawr-ing at me and I could see in his eyes he really meant it so I said, it's OK, you can say it! And he said "I love you!" and I said it back. I don't know why we waited so long to say the real words, we were so nervous!

Abby said...

My husband (then-boyfriend) whispered "I love you" to me during a slow dance at his company Christmas party 5 months after we started dating. He said it so quietly, and I didn't respond because I wasn't sure I heard him right. Luckily, he said it again later that night, and I said it back. We've been together 10 years and have a beautiful 10 month old.

Jessie said...

My experience with the “I love you” was not ideal, but I can look back on it now and laugh. I was very young (only 18) and had been dating my boyfriend for 8 months. I was itching to tell him I loved him, but I wanted him to say it first.

When I talked to friends about the situation, the general consensus was “if he doesn’t love you by now, something’s wrong.” So one restless night, I shot out of bed and made him meet me really late at night to have the “where is this going talk.” Turns out he was just nervous to say the words because of scars from previous relationships. I had been too obsessed with the actual words to see that his actions spoke volumes for how much he loved me.

We’ve been together almost five years, and I definitely will not be making the same mistake again by forcing a proposal on him. I want him to do it out of his own free will, when he is ready, and not because of another “where is this going” relationship talk.

Rebecca said...

I "tried" to say it first! But, the funny thing is, as I was explaining my feeling, he totally cut me off and said, "I love you!" and we hugged and I felt so great.

xo
Rebecca
www.rebeccamarin.com

Brandy said...

So, my now-husband made the huge mistake of asking me, at a time when we were "just friends" where I thought our relationship was going. I went with a frightening degree of honesty and said that I loved him and was pretty sure he was going to marry me! One declaration of "I'll never marry you" and three tumultuous years later, and we walked down the aisle :). Ten years on, and I am still delighted to have been right!

lily said...

I told my now-husband about a month or so into dating that "I think I might be falling in love" with him. His response: "Oh. Thanks!" Knife in heart! I had the matzo ball talk with friends after. Luckily, he said it about a week or so later on his birthday, and the rest is history.

Jacki said...

That's really sweet about you and your husband :)

I have said it first twice - once was a really dysfunctional situation and I didn't tell him till after we had "broken up" and he did not reciprocate. He told me much, much later that he had loved me - by the time we'd both moved on and he had moved in with another woman. It was validating to hear, at least.

With my current boyfriend, I knew early on. We'd been friends for many years. But I refused to say it first, and kept quiet, even though it kept trying to sneak out. He said it shortly after I started fighting the urge to say it!

Kathryn said...

This has been on my mind a lot lately - I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 months and I love him, and I think he might be it. I've never been one for discretion but I don't want to scare him (he's the guarded, logical type). I know from his actions how he feels though - I'll probably end up saying it first.

Catherine Masi said...

Oh, I love Alex's response... you must have felt ecstatic! Although I'm married to him now, I scared my later-to-be husband early on by telling him I love him. Problem with me is I had always worn my heart on my sleeve and spoke it. I've since learned to filter certain things as I "mature", but I generally still let people know when I love and admire them- hopefully without being too creepy about it! I figure we're living life to experience this stuff so why bury it?

amber said...

Oh, this is a great post! My now husband and I had a long history before we got married. We dated a little in college, but broke up because I had big plans for my life, haha. When I went to a foreign country to teach English he came to visit me and told me then that he loved me. I didn't feel the same. Years later when we rekindled our relationship and I knew I was ready to tell him, I was intent on saying it before he did, but right as the words were coming out of my mouth, he said it first!

FutureLint said...

Haha! I said it to to my boyfriend first! We were staying up north at a hotel for an out of town wedding and we'd just crashed a second wedding upstairs in the hotel for a dance with some strangers. My exact words were "I think I might love you... a little bit." 2 years later, we're looking at houses and rings!

Fiona said...

In a past relationship, I thought I loved him after a few months dating. So on the night of my 21st birthday, drunk as a skunk, I said it to him in a bar surrounded by our friends... It didn't go so well...

In my present and awesome relationship, we were in bed one night after a particularly stressful day. We were about to fall asleep, but I couldn't not say the words before we slept... It was nice and is still one of our fondest memories!!

Lsia C said...

Yep, I said I love you first in my most recent relationship. It had been 6 months and I loved him very much and was 100% sure he loved me too. (I always felt like he was a bit more into me than I was into him...). Well, I was wrong. And even though we were together for 6 months after that, I waited every day to hear those words, and I never did until the night we broke up when he said "I love you, I have for a long time, but I don't think you're the one."

Needless to say, I will never say it first again and I will shout it from the rooftops to PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD GIRLS, DON'T SAY IT FIRST!SAVE YOUR DIGNITY! (My ex was soo nice about it but it's still a punch in the gut, no matter how it's handled.) My roommate has contemplated telling her boyfriend she loves him and I'm like seriously? Have you learned nothing!?

But maybe I am a bit cynical about it all because I think it was the root of all of our problems in the end. Ok, end rant.

Heather said...

I was the first to say "I love you" when my husband and I first started dating. I was a little tipsy and it slipped out. His response? "Um... I don't think I'm there yet." Ouch. I definitely felt like an ass for saying it first, but it all worked out in the end - he ended up saying it back a couple months later and we've been married almost 3 years now. :)

Everyday I'm Trufflin' said...

We had been dating for about 3 weeks, and I knew I loved him but I didn't want to say it first! So instead I said, "J'Taime". Luckily for me he didn't know a word of French, so when he asked me what it meant I just said it meant "I like you". A week later he told me he loved me! I fessed up and he thought it was sweet. Three years later we are happily married! Sometimes when we are in public in a non-mushy sentiments appropriate setting, we just mouth "J'Taime." Mushy? Maybe, but I'm okay with it. :)

des said...

i told my husband after 3 days, he responded by proposing, the next day he called my mom to ask for my hand! 10 years later we are more in love and ever thankful that we listened to our hearts and took a chance!

liz said...

I said it first. We had been dating for about 4 months and I had been rather hesitant about showing my cards to this very charming man I was carefully falling in love with. We were on a weekend retreat in upstate New York, capping off a very romantic day with dinner at a quiet brew pub and somehow the conversation moved in a "what are we doing" direction. My boyfriend spoke for a while about how he couldn't tell where I stood with him. Not wanting to spill my feeling in front of the restaurants 5 other patrons, I listened to his frustrations sympathetically and then spent the ten minute walk to our hotel silently building up courage. As soon as we got to the room I promptly took him by the shoulders and declared "You want to know where I stand? Well, okay, I love you." His eyes popped out of his head and he repeated the words back to me. He has since told me he almost said it three times that day, but held back. Three years later he is very proud of the fact that I said it first and tells that story regularly.

n u n u m u said...

I'd just gotten out of a horrible relationship before I started dating my boyfriend, so I was afraid to even use the words ever again. He said it first, and had to wait a few months before I said it back! Still going strong 3.5 years later! =)

RC Cola said...

Um, first let me just say that I LOVE THIS PHOTO. Gorgeous!

Second...I'm embarrassed to admit, I can't remember how my husband and I said it for the first time! I think he said it first, but I have no clue where we were or anything! Your post will prompt a good dinner conversation tonight for our date night.

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Sol Kawage said...

is it super sad that I don't remember who said it first?

Kerry said...

Your story about saying it first to your husband gave me shivers. Nicely done, both of you.

When my husband said it to me first, I said, "....Oh, OK, thanks." Not my finest moment.

Kate Uhry said...

great post, the "I love you elephant cracked me up". I think we have all been there, at least once-no?

Jenna | The Paleo Project said...

totally said I love you first. He did not give as nice of an answer as your Alex, but he gave one nonetheless. Still in love 5 years later, I guess it all worked out ;)

Victoria said...

Great post! I said it first to my first boyfriend--over the phone and didn't get a response back until a week later. AWKWARD!I have learned my lesson and haven't said it first since!

With my current boyfriend, he said it right before we were going to run our 10 mile race that we had been training so hard for, and I couldn't ask for a more perfect moment :)

Thanks for sharing!

-Victoria
The Stylista Diaries

katie fiddler said...

I waited and let him say it first, but it was SO hard! There was LOTS of "I l-like you" before he finally said it. And I'm so glad I waited - we had just exchanged Christmas gifts, and his Christmas card was so sweet I started crying. He hugged me, and I asked him why he always knew the perfect things to say. He pulled back and said "You know why." I asked "Why?" And he hugged me and whispered in my ear, "...because I love you!" <3

Adrienne {Blonde + Brit} said...

Ugh I wanted to say it so badly, but have never said it first. I couldn't stop thinking about those 3 words that I started hearing things. He would whisper "sleep tight" and I would hear "I love you". I would always excitedly say "What did you just say?!" and he would repeat what he actually said and I would be bummed. It made me crazy but I couldn't stand to say it first and not hear I love you back.

laurenfoode.com said...

My boyfriend accidentally (or maybe not so?) said it first. We'd be dating for about a month and were on the phone after I had an unfortunate mishap with a jalapeno and was in a lot of pain, and he'd called to make sure I was okay. We were about to hang up and he said, "Love you" and I said, "WHAT?!" And he said, "Oh! I was... um, I was just talking to my mom and ended the call with that and... I must've just had it on the brain." A couple weeks later he said it for real.

Sara Turner said...

I said it first, by several months actually, but it was ok, I would rather him say it when he meant it than just to say it right back. His response "I already knew" in a sweet way

Sarah said...

Aww what a sweet story. When my boyfriend first said it to me he'd actually miss heard me when I said "thank you" and he replied "love you too" I couldn't help but laugh my ass out and I just shouted "I DIDNT SAY THAT" and we laughed about it. But that's just the kind of relationship we have :) xxx

Bea B said...

Oh what a beautiful first "I love you"! It made me a little teary (I'm a sucker for a lovely love story).

He said it first. And then I made him say it again and again because I loved hearing it so much!

Bea x

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Moonlight said...

Well, with my boyfriend of five years, I spilled this "i love you" thing very early on. The circumstances were not something I can explain now, but I was sure for that, and needed to get it off of my chest, regardless of his answer. Luckily he held me, he smiled while his eyes were tearing, and said I love you too. And it was the first time he ever said it to a girlfriend. :)
It's not bad saying it first if you feel it and if you feel that the other person will not use you after that despite of their feelings. Just make sure you are ready for what comes after...

HAS said...

Swoon! What a lovely story. You and Alex are such a cute couple!

dot said...

Not only I said first I love you to my now husband, but I also kissed him first for the first time :)
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Alice said...

I've never said I love you first... But seconds before my now ex said it to me for the first time (as in, before he opened his mouth) I knew what he was going to say, and I was so happy he did because I'd been DYING to say it to him. At the moment, I feel like I'll be very cautious before saying it again, but I'm sure that when I fall in love again I'll be bursting to say it!!!

abroadathome said...

I said it first to my boyfriend. WE had been dating for eight months (!) and it was killing me. He said it right back :) He was afraid to say it because we were about to be dating internationally long-distance and didn't know what would happen to us. What happened was we stayed together and three years later we love LOVE each other ha!

It made me feel powerful to say it first. I love expressing myself and saying "I love you" was a fulfilling extension of that desire. I say, go for it!
-Kristina

Isa said...

Haha, so sadly, I can't remember how my boyfriend's and my first "I love you" went. I wish I had that story to tell!

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Surabhi Muncie said...

Oh gosh I wish I could remember who said it first!! Actually I wish I could remember either of us saying it at all in the early days.

We started being friends when he was 13 and I was 15 and the relationship evolved from there. It's just one big blur of teenage hormones in my mind!! Now 15 years later and two little munchkins we say I love you everyday.

Mara said...

Our "I love you" story is a bit embarrassing ... I laugh about it now - but Husband still blushes red! Husband said it first - we were young college students and had just come back from his fraternity date dash. I had partied a bit more than I should have an was in the bathroom (oh, silly young me...) and as he was holding my hair back - he told me he loved me. I looked at him and said "That's nice" Doh!

The next morning I asked him if he told me he loved me and he denied it. For almost an entire year I thought I imagined him telling me he loved me! I kept waiting for him to say it but I just couldn't hold it in and of course I told him I loved him when we were at a dance club right by the speakers so I yelled it in his ear. I just remember getting a funny look. Oh, young love...

I honestly can't remember when we truly told each other we loved each other. But we've been together for 12 years, married for 8 and have two beautiful boys. It must be love if he told me while I was not at my finest!

fleur_delicious said...

Honestly, I think we get too worked up about this as a culture! Love is such a generous emotion; we shouldn't clam up about it!

I knew I was in love with my husband within three days of meeting him. A few months later, I told him. He wasn't into me. He apologized for not being able to return my feelings. Did it hurt? Sure - I was 19 and it was like the end of the world. But it didn't change our friendship - not a jot, actually, and we were the best of friends by then. Life moves on. Two years later, he suddenly realized he was in love, too. We moved in together. The rest, as they say, is history: 12 years of it!

Philline Dilao said...

That's kind of what happened with me! I blurted out "I love you" few days before I was leaving the country. I was hugging my boyfriend good bye at the door before he left my place, and the words just came out. He finally said it to me the night before I left, when he was convinced his feelings won't change no matter where I go. We're in the second year of long-distance (on opposite sides of the world!) and still in love.

Ashley Sweet said...

Yes! I said it first to my boyfriend, whom I have been with for nearly 4 years. We were very good friends for about a year before anything romantic happened, however I always knew there was something special there. Finally after taking a trip together to Argentina I knew I couldn't hold it anymore so I told him on New Years Eve! It's very characteristic of both of us, he is more reserved while I'm the more outspoken and impatient one :)

Chelsea said...

Oh gosh! That is so sweet.

Kelsi said...

I told my first serious boyfriend I loved him three weeks after we met. I was 18, a freshman in college, and he was the first boy I ever fell for. I realized I loved him at a crazy, loud rock concert two weeks after we met, but I manage not to blurt it out until the following week! We were laying in my twin-sized bed in my dorm room, almost asleep, and I was too nervous to flat out say "I love you," even though I wanted to. So I said "Can I tell you something? I think I'm falling in love with you." I know that means the same thing, but it seemed less scary to say it that way! Fortunately he told me he was already in love with me, too. :)

My current boyfriend told me he loved me THE DAY WE MET. I thought he was crazy and shut the front door in his face. But here we are, four years later, totally in love and planning our October wedding.

Stacey Mulligan said...

Joanna, hi!
What's the lipstick you used on this photo? Lovely, by the way.
Thanks,
Stacey

Stacey Mulligan said...

Joanna, hi!
What's the lipstick you used on this photo? Lovely, by the way.
Thanks,
Stacey

You said...

We were friends/more than friends for about two years and had been officially dating for about two months. I had been planning on telling him for about two weeks, and I finally psyched myself up to tell him on the night of my thesis's gallery opening (I was an art major). I just had a lot of anticipation built up for that day because of the show and for some reason I felt that the right moment would eventually present itself in some way throughout the course of the night. Not only that but the night of my presentation was coincidentally the three year anniversary of his father's death and I hoped maybe that hearing those three words would let him know I was planning on always being around for him. Funnily enough though, he beat me to the punchline and spontaneously blurted it out the night before my thesis presentation while we were in bed together. We had a laugh when I told him how I'd been carefully planning to tell him that for two weeks, but regardless, here we are dating a year later :)

Ashley Rustad said...

I said it first! He was dropping me off one night, about 4 months in, and I just had to get out of the car and get in the house before I slipped because I knew I had to say it. AND the previous night, we both had said we wanted to be together and get married one day, we are weird. So he stops me before we even get off the driveway and asks me, "what's up? Is something wrong?" (We had just had dinner with his parents) and I said I can't keep it in anymore, I love you! And he said, "I love you, I should have said it last night, and I've felt it for a while." I was so relieved he said it back. We are also getting married in April.

his little lady said...

I said I love you first, and proud of it ;)
And I absolutely love that you referenced Seinfeld. Perfect!
xo TJ

Danielle Noah said...

Such a nerve wrecking and exciting moment...I think back on that moment with thrill and happiness but in the midst of it it feels like torture! But when it is returned? Amazing.

Dani // andbubblegum.com

Sarah Jane said...

I've never been the one to say I love you first and to be honest I hadn't found love I was just enjoying being in a fun college relationship. The man I've been dating for the last seven/eight months however is the man of my dreams, seriously! After five months (even though I knew at two months) I couldn't hold it in any longer. It was after dinner one night walking back to the car while in the middle of a conversation before leaving on a week and half vacation that I decided I was going to say it to him. He started giggling and said seriously...I've been thinking of telling you for the last few weeks that I love you. It happened so all of sudden and in parking lot of all places but it felt so right and perfect to know we were both on the same page at the same time.

Liz Voris said...

I fell very early for my husband just like you. I probably was in love with him by the first week according to the butterflies in my stomach but I waited a little over a month before initiating the following exchange:

me - i think this is heading towards being in love. is that something you'd want?
him - yes it is
me - so do you want to just do it? be in love?
him - mhmm (i do most of the talking as you can tell!)
me - then let's do it... I love you

he took awhile to get comfortable saying it after that first time, but he made me feel great about saying it by always tightly squeezing me after i said it. i used to tell him "squeezes mean i love you".

now that we are married, you would never know he was so shy in the beginning as he is now the one who is always all kisses and i love yous!

Rachael said...

I whispered it to my boyfriend after he had fallen asleep because I knew he wasn't ready to reciprocate and I was bursting. As soon as the last words left my lips, he massively twitched and punched me in the face (not the first time that had happened but the timing was .... amazing). He never woke up.

CheCiara said...

I've only been in love once-with my husband. He said it first-like you, early on in a "I think I'm falling in love with you" fashion. To which I freaked because it was "too fast". But his early admission really allowed me to open up and allow myself to feel the things I was protecting myself from. And he was right.

Simohermione said...

I recently broke up after couple of years of an intense relationship (aka i have been recently dumped from completely out of the blue). Now looking back, i think that not being synchro on the "i am in love with you" or "i love you" should have been a sign that we would have never been synchro. As you can read behind the lines- i was the one saying that first and got a "thank you" back. Definitely a learning for the future!

Clarissa Endo said...

Same with me, joanna. I knew I knew loved him as soon as we started dating, but only had the courage to say anything after six months of oficial relantionship. Once I heard he was completely commitment afraid, I never knew exactly how to say it and avoiding him to freak out. So, when it happened it was very spontenous, we were lying down together, after he took a short trip and I was so happy and had missed him so much, that after kissing him non-stop for a very long time, I said it. And he smiled at me and said it back and added: " after all this time with you, I think it's the first time love makes a very strong and real sense to me".

jessica wilson. said...

Jo! Alex's reply was the cutest thing I've ever read, I might've accidentally made a dying whale noise in response.

Claire M├ęgret said...

So cute! A very romantic moment I guess...

Jane Bond said...

I realized one day when I was lying on the beach with a group of friends and my boyfriend wasn't there. All of the sudden I sat up and I was like 'I think I love Ben' one of my friends replied 'I thought you might'. We had only been dating for 4 months at that point and I waited another 2 after that when one night we ate oysters and I got food poisoning and Ben helped me through 4 hours of retching and as we were falling asleep on pillows on the bathroom floor, I figured even if he hasn't said it after helping me through this he must love me too so I told him I loved him. He didn't get a chance to say it back because a wave of sickness took me over but he told me the next morning that he loved me too! That was about 5 years ago and we're getting married this August! :)

Me Myself I said...
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Me Myself I said...

Hello Joanna!
Although I come to your blog everyday, this is my first comment! Shame on me! :)
Well, first of all: that photo of you too is absolutely beautiful! "Linda" as you say it in Portuguese! :)

Well, my then friend now husband said it first! Actually he said it so many times for two years before we started dating (I was a little scared of being in a relationship so I couldn't make my mind)! The poor thing! :)
The summer we finally started dating, I just said it out loud, like it was really obvious: "Of course I love you! Duh!"

Great blog and great post Joanna! Thank you!

Oh, Alex's answer is just the cutest moment ever!

Diana

kyliesfisk said...

On the subject of I love you, not long after my husband and I first said it to each other (on Christmas day 2 months after dating), we were just getting into the casual "I love you" goodbyes/greetings. Running out the door for work, I said "I love you!". He said "I love you too!!" to which I answered "NO TOO"! I then explained (somewhat embarassed) that by saying 'too', it feels to me like you mean it less. Too...also...responding...somehow diminished the meaning for me or means it isn't equal. Now we just say "I love you"..no too :) Engraved in our rings is "No Too".

Bret M said...

Oh my goodness, the first time I said I love you to my boyfriend was a Freudian Slip of sorts! We were just getting into my car when he started to have some kind of coughing attack. I reached over and yelled "DON'T COUGH I LOVE YOU!" without a breath or anything inbetween.. it just flew right out of my mouth. I grasped my mouth and started dying of laughter, and he did too. Luckily, he asked me if it was true, and I nodded. He loves me too, he said. So cute, whenever one of us coughs now, that's what we think of/say to each other.

Colene said...

The fisrt time my boyfriend told me he loved me was still kind of early in the relationship. He was about to leave on a business trip, and he said, "I love you". I said, "Don't forget your coat"! It caught me so off guard that I didn't know what to say. We still laugh about that! :)

Georgie said...

I wanted to tell my boyfriend I loved him after about a month, but thought it was WAY too early to say it, so I had to bite my tongue. After a while this got so hard, like I'd start saying it and then have to quickly change it to something else, ie 'Jamie...you're amazing.' (I thought this fooled him, but no, apparently it was obvious!) One night I just thought I'd say it, so I did and thank god he said it back. I will never forget the way he looked when I said it - like all his dreams had come true. Now we say it literally all the time! x

K. Gray said...

HA! Seinfeld is hilarious! I love telling people I love them and I am too expressive and emotional to keep it inside and wait for someone else to tell me, but I'll wait a little bit to make sure I'm being honest with myself before I blurt something so intimate out like that. Loving someone is a magical thing and whether it happens a hundred times or just once, it's definitely worth making that effort for.

x

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penelopebianchi said...

I have not read one single comment; I stumbled upon this blog; but it hit so close to home; I had to follow it!

YES!! I said it first!
And HE said; "Well, I love YOU"! and the amazing thing; is that I have never said it; nor felt it!

and I will now change my life around so I can live with it!"

And he did. This was 37 years ago! Our 35th anniversary is Tuesday!

My birthday is tomorrow; his birthday is Monday!

Your question just popped out of my screen!

Penelope

penelopebianchi said...

I forgot to say; it was complicated! I was just separated; with one daughter, 6; he had two daughters 11 and 12!

It was extremely complicated....and it had a happy ending!
(all girls) Now they are 43, 47 and 49!!

there can be happy endings to complicated beginnings!!!.
(His former wife is very happily remarried)

Grandchildren galore! Happiness rules!

sashley said...

We have good natured debates about who was first. My hubs signed it to me first, and the next day I said it first. So it was a mutual thing.

cait - pretty and fun said...

First of all, what an adorable photo of you two! Love how intimate it feels.

Also what a sweet story - it's always SO scary saying those three words for the first time. I feel like you should be able to tell how the other person feels though but I have had my fair share of mishaps with it as well.

Mirela said...

He said "I think I'm already there." ?! Heart melt!!! And just imagining how nervous you must have been to say that, and how safe your heart felt once he answered you the sweetest thing ever...! Oh, I love it.

Eliza Jane said...

My boyfriend and I had been friends for 5 years before the fateful night. He was my date to my sister's wedding. It was that night I realized I was in love with him, and had been for ages. A couple days later, while he was driving me home from dinner, I had an Oscar-worthy melt down in the car. I blurted out that I loved him. The problem? I was Canadian and lived in Canada, and was Australian and he lived in Australia. I got on the plane home four days later, without hearing those three little words back from him. Two weeks later I got an email from him telling me he'd loved me since the day he met me. Fast-forward four years, and we finally, FINALLY got our act together. I moved to Australia, and we have been together and happy for 7 months now.

hannahgetup said...

I've never really been the first. But, that being said, after a couple of weeks with my current companion, we were laying in bed and he looked at me this certain way...and I couldn't stop myself from saying, "You love me."
And he said, "Well. Um. Well, meeuh, uhhh, oh fuck it. I fucking love you."

It was darling and couldn't have happened to us in a better fashion.

hayley [see.hay.fly] said...

Same with me :) My boyfriend and I met in Germany and were strictly just friends but he came out to CA to see me and one thing led to another and what do you know, we're long distance. I said it when he was here visiting so we were only "technically" together for a few weeks. But, we both knew and now know for sure that we had been secretly in love with each other for a long time. There is something about being thrown on opposites sides of the globe that make you want to scream it from the rooftops :)

Kate said...

I wasn't the first. [I'm 18 and not allowed to date, so technically the better title for him is best friend rather than "boyfriend."]
My best friend and I had gone out to lunch with some friends, and he told me he wanted to go for a walk so we could talk. We went out to the parking lot and he told me that he thought I was the most beautiful woman in the world... then we went for a walk and he kept asking what my dad would think when he told him how he felt about me. So finally I just looked at him and said, "well what are you gonna tell him?"
We stopped- right in front of a McDonald's- and he looked at me and said, "I think I love you." That knocked all the thoughts out of my head and I think I managed to get something out about him being my best friend and the only one I could spend my life with... But I made him wait until the next day before I said it back! We went for a 9 mile run and I couldn't say anything until we hit 2.75 miles... and then I told him :) He tells me that that was the most suspenseful 2.75 miles of his life!
It's only been a week since then and I cannot wipe the smile off my face! we joke that all our special moments are in the most ridiculous places :)

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Chapstick Fanatic said...

I talk in my sleep so apparently I said it first. But don't count that since I was unconscious. He said, "I love you too" when I opened my eyes.

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Jamie said...

I said it first to my husband, and to this day he apologizes because he couldn't say it back. Its not that he didn't, he explains, it was just so much emotion that he didn't want it to just be the thing he said back in the moment. Its funny though, because I don't even remember that he didn't say it back. I wasn't hurt by that. I was just stating the fact, and really didn't have any emotional strings attached to his response.
We've been married for almost three years now and I am still more vocal with those three words than he is, however I have never not felt loved by him. I'm just more of a wordy communicator than he is, I guess. :)

Claire Nolan said...

My boyfriend said it first! We had only been dating for a few weeks and we were watching a movie at his apartment when out of nowhere he said "I think I'm falling in love with you". I was caught of guard because I was leaving in a few weeks (I live in Canada, he lives in France), and all I could say was "Don't say that". I had to explain to him that I didn't want to say anything because I was leaving and I didn't want to make it harder to leave than it already would be. So we carried on with our evening and it wasn't till about two days before I was leaving that I told him I love him..via text message (I'm a coward, i know). He responded saying, "I know.. I love you too" and we decided to try to make it work. We are approaching our one year mark together (even though we've only been physically together for a total of 6 weeks) and I couldn't be happier! Long distance is so hard, but I'll be spending 4 months with him in France over the summer and I couldn't imagine my life without him!

h2wellness1212 said...

Yes! With my fiance I just knew. I kept to myself and just like you, one night when we had just gotten in bed I said, "I love you."

Silence

So I asked if he heard me and he said, "You said the "L" word." I was crushed, but I felt better. My feelings were out there and he was a slow mover. A few months later he told me. And things keep getting better and better!

Bethlove said...

I said it to my boyfriend first! My first serious boyfriend. From the beginning of our relationship, he kept saying "You're all mine, right?" So finally about month 2, I asked him what he meant by that, did it mean he loved me? And he said I just meant I'm not looking around for anybody else, the L word makes people crazy, we need to wait on that and take it slow. He had been burned by past girlfriends cheating on him and mistreating him, so he was slow to open up to me. I wanted to say it really bad though! I love easily and have no trouble expressing my emotions.
I waited till month 4, thought it through, then decided to say it. He had to get up early for work, and when we kissed goodbye I looked up at him and said "I love you." He immediately said it back, then looked at me funny and said, "Thought I told you to hold onto that one." Not sure what I said next, but we say it all the time now. I just had to say it, even if he didn't say it back. He already had shown me by his actions how much he loved me, and still does. He's never been big on expressing emotions, but he treats me so good, I know he loves me regardless of whether he says the words.

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Alvaro Lorey said...

I want to share this testimony about a spell caster. I contacted drlawrencespelltemple@hotmail.com about my Fiance. We were engaged for two years, and dated for three. Everything in the relationship was great. One day, out of the clear blue, he tells me to put the wedding plans on hold. I suspected that he was getting nervous, possibly getting cold feet because the wedding was coming up in the next few months. Few days pass by, I found out that his ex got into the picture and was trying to ruin our relationship. When speaking with Dr Lawrence he told me I was compatible for a spell. Soon after, he helped us reunite.

Alvaro Lorey said...

I want to share this testimony about a spell caster. I contacted drlawrencespelltemple@hotmail.com about my Fiance. We were engaged for two years, and dated for three. Everything in the relationship was great. One day, out of the clear blue, he tells me to put the wedding plans on hold. I suspected that he was getting nervous, possibly getting cold feet because the wedding was coming up in the next few months. Few days pass by, I found out that his ex got into the picture and was trying to ruin our relationship. When speaking with Dr Lawrence he told me I was compatible for a spell. Soon after, he helped us reunite.

Carissa Layton said...

I was married to my beloved husband and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 2years and every thing was going on smoothly but june 29, 2013 we both had misunderstanding and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I plead to him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and favor in any of her endeavor but at first I was scared but I have to give this man a trial because I love my husband very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning love spell from this great spell caster called Dr Orissa that made me a happy woman again to say it all my husband came back to me with much love and a caring heart...i am testifying to this great spell caster you are a great man in this world and you mean so much to me you are the best spell caster. you can contact this man via this email if you really need to get your problems solve orissatemple@yahoo.com

osas sent shaibu said...

THANK to Dr great oshogum for all he have done in my life, I NORYAN WARLALD I lost my 10 years relationship during April. i suspected my ex was into another relationship i could not talk to him about it or even contact a spell caster to help me because of how much i love him. i was scared of losing him after some time My ex left me with so many pains and pregnancy. to another woman since then i have been heart broken and shattered. I have contact 5 spell casters and 3 of them has rip me off my money without any result. I have Emailed so many sites online looking for a good spell caster till i was directed by a man to great Dr oshogum because Dr oshogum him help him to get his wife back some times past. so when i contacted Dr oshogum on this site, At first i never believed him because he was requesting for some amount of money to buy items after he consulted his great and powerful god, it took me three weeks be convince by MR LONGER DUKE and something occur to my mind and i said let me give him a trial.
I was very shocked when Ruben called four days after i sent Dr oshogum the items money. He apologies for all he has done wrong and i should allow him back to my heart. sincerely i am very happy that we are together today because he proposed to me last night. sir the great Dr i am very grateful and happy for what you have done for me. I will advise you my friends out there who have emotional problems or health to contact him now via email oshogumspelltemple@live.com because he has done wonders in my life and i believe he can help you out in any problem.
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ohmemsumutemple@gmail.com said...


I have something to share with you!!! There is a great joy in my heart which I want to share with everyone. My name is Rita. I had a misunderstanding with my lover a few years ago; which led to us to break up and he never wanted to hear my voice again. He saw a beautiful love more prettier than myself, but as time went on I met Dr Sango. He is a great spell caster (medicine man ). I contacted him through his email and explained everything to him. He said that I shouldn't worry, that my lover will come back to me on his knees begging for forgiveness. I bought an item that he told me to buy for the preparation of the spell. After everything was prepared he told me that my lover will come to me with 48 hours begging. My greatest joy now is that he actually came back to me and fell on his knees begging for forgiveness, and today we are happy. Do you have any problem with your loved one? Do not know what to do? Well worry no more because Dr Sango can provide you with a spell to get him or her back. With the help of a spell just as he helped me. Contact Dr Sango today via email for your spell: sangospelltemple@gmail.com

Hope Bennett said...

My current boyfriend and I have known each other for fifteen years- he happens to be my big brother's best friend (yikes!) The ten year age gap was a huge scare factor, considering I'd have to break this news of he and I dating. Me being 20, him 30- that leaves about ten years worth of my brother having room to tear this apart. So as nervous as I was, I picked up the phone, called my brother and began with the dreaded "So... how have you been? Eh, so.. you know Stephen?" I start to babble about how I understand if he doesn't approve and I apologize if I ruined anything between them, don't be upset with Stephen, etc etc yadda yadda. He sat there patiently listening to my 20 minute rant, spilling my heart and soul out only to tell me "Stephen already talked to me about it. I'm totally fine with it, I'm so happy for you two! I love him, he's my best friend, you're my baby sister. You guys have my blessing." I fell in love with Stephen in that very moment. And I told him about a week in, and didn't get it back. Yes I was drinking. Yes I was on the phone. I was a little bit thrown off and embarrassed but I knew he felt the same. There was an instant connection from day one. Turns out he was waiting to say it to me in person. It was whispered into my ear, and I just melted in his arms. I don't think I could possibly be happier, it seems implausible. I love that man!

henry nancy said...


This is a testimony that I will tell to every one to hear. I have been married four 4years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until I met a post where this man DR BUDE have helped someone and I decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me I just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, I saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why I am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. His email: budelovespell@gmail.com.

maria hasbarger said...

My name is sarah dixon, am from Dublin. i want to use this opportunity to thank my great doctor who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man DR.OLUWAKEMI brought my husband back to me, i had 2 lovely kids for my husband, about 3 years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me for one lady. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mine was a small case and that i shouldn't worry about it at all so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great man phone number and his email address. i was doubting if this man was the solution, so contacted this great man and he told me what to do and i deed them all, he told me to wait for just two day and that my husband will come crawling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully deed what this great man asked me to do and for sure after two days i heard a knock on the door, in a great surprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart flew away,since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are happy.that's why i want to say a big thank you to oluwakemiprosperityspell@live.com This great man made me to understand that there no problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to come straight to this great man. you can email him at:oluwakemiprosperityspell@live.com or call him +2348103508204

John mills said...

I am CLUXE MORREV from USA,i hear how people are talking about The powerful spell caster called DR OKORO in regard of how he bring back ex lover,winning lottery,getting pregnant and getting married to their dream true lover and i also contact him to help me cast a spell in regard of my ex lover whom i love so much that left me 2yrs ago,but today my ex is back to me and we are happily married with 3kids and i am so much happy for the help i found in you DR OKORO of okorohomeofrefuge@gmail.com,i and my family are very much happy and we are living large now,i am grateful and appreciate your good work of spell casting,thank you and may you leave long to help people in problems His email is okorohomeofrefuge@gmail.com

albert Uwa said...

I am mrs Violet from U K, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my husband return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank Dr aluda for bringing joy and happines to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that these is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my husband, I required help until i found aludaspelltemple@gmail.com a great spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my husband back in four days after the spell has been cast. four days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my husband who has not called me for past 1 year now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. Dr aluda released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I’m writing this testimony right now I’m the most happiest woman on earth and me and my husband are living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to Dr aluda for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. aludaspelltemple@gmail.com

sambola smith said...




My Name is TRACY, I am From United Kingdom. I wish to
share my testimonies with the general public about
what this man called DR SAMBOLA has just done for me ,
this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband
to me with his great spell, I was married to this man
called Steven we were together for a long time and
we loved our self’s but when I was unable to give
him a child for 2 years he left me and told me he
can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for
ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me
about this man and gave his contact email greatsambolaspiritualtemple@gmail.com
then you wont believe
this, when I contacted this man on my problems he
prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband
back, and after a month I miss my month and go for
a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy
today am a mother of a baby boy, thank you once
again DR SAMBOLA for what you have done for
me, if you are out there passing through any of this
problems listed below contact him today greatsambolaspiritualtemple@gmail.com
1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) How you been scammed and you want to recover
you lost money.

camille bruno said...

My name is Miss. Camille Bruno Valdez; I am out here to spread this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex love back. I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when I meet a friend that introduce me to DR DAHIRU the great messenger to the oracle that he serve, I narrated my problem to DR DAHIRU about how my ex love left me and also how I needed to get a job in a very big company. He only said to me that i have come to the right place were I will be getting my heart desire without any side effect. He told me what i need to do, After it was been done, In the next 2 days, My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness, I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director.. I am so happy and overwhelmed that I have to tell this to the entire world to contact DR DAHIRU at the following email address and get all your problem solve.. No problem is too big for him to solve. Contact him direct on: arewaspecialisttemple@yahoo.com . And get your problems solve like me..... ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: arewaspecialisttemple@yahoo.com

albert Uwa said...

Am just short of words just confused and so happy don't know how to
start, I never believed that a straight forward spell caster still exist on the
internet, After i have been scammed by lots of fake spell caster with
lies i never believed i would ever meet a spell caster that will ever
bring back Dennis to my arms again after 1 year of break up i could
not leave without him, i was so sad and unhappy even lost my job because
i was not concentrating anymore, i was always thinking of him, Then i came in
contact with this God sent Dr aluda, Who has brought back happiness that
left me for 1 solid year when i told him my problem he laughed and
said everything would be okay within 5 days, i was like hmmm is this
real, So i decided to give it a try, 4 days after i was shocked when i got a
call from Dennis crying that he was sorry for what he has done to me i
was so happy and a cry of joy fell of my eye's. Dennis came over to my
place and now we are together he can't do without seeing me for just a
second all thanks and adoration goes to Dr aluda for what he has
done for me. Please don't contact other spell caster online that are there to
add pain to your life just contact Dr aluda on is email
aludaspelltemple@gmail.com
Dennis Trisha by name

wendy tarry said...

I WANT TO THANK GREAT DR IGBERASE 2ND FOR HELPING ME WITH MY LOST HUSBAND DEVIS HOLLYWOOD...
Dr Igberase is like a father to the fatherless.. i never believed these will really make a change in my marriage, and i never have it in my thought that i could ever been with my husband Mr Devis after divorcing and ending our 33years marriage.... My life was upset i never knew where to start from when my husband broke up with me.....My name is Tanisha Davis from Poland but got married and live in Chicago USA, igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com is the right email address to contact for an urgent help in getting your lover back.... My husband and I have been together for 33years before he divorced me and i was so upset because i thought i have lost my marriage forever... i did all i could to please for my husband to bring me back home but all to be in vain.. i had to traveled away from my state because i was not having anywhere to stay because my home was not conducive for me to stay because my husband want me out of the house, i travel to a friend of mine in California, one night, when i was searching on a good spell caster results that help in bringing back lost lover's and husband's, i found an interesting story that was shared by Santana Valdez From Texas Huston, about a good spell caster called Dr Igberase,and how he helped her in getting her husband back home, and i decided to put a try in contacting him... he replied me back.. i thought at first these was just normal and he told me that i was going to get back my husband after a period of 28hours i still doubted him.... But today as i am sharing these good news is for me to express my experience to all the whole universe that these is a good spell caster that helps in bringing back lost lovers and he is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) I am happily with my husband and my 3 kids, TARRY, WENDY, JEFF... great Igberase i thank you for helping me to get my family back.... his email address is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) Thanks, From Tanisha Davis
, Igberase is my Grandfather because he was always there for me when i needed him mostly and he is the reason why i am happy today.


Mary Anner said...

I admit I was skeptical about magic spells. For me it was just a movie though I was ready to try anything to get my husband back, which I did with the spell Lord Lugard cast for me. I think I wouldn't have done it if it wasn't this spell caster. The other casters I contacted seemed to care only for money and nothing else, but I've appreciated the fact that Lord Lugard seemed much caring about my problem than all of them.And cast a love spell for me and made my husband returned back to me, and made my family a happy and united one. miracletemple@live.com

sabine defroyenne said...

I have to share my testimony to the world because i don't know who it might be helpful to.

My name is Mrs Sabine from Chicago am 25 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail, i cry and cry seeking for help, i discussed it with my best friend Allix and she promise to help me. She told me of a man called DR LAWAL KERIM, she told me he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot solve and she told me how he has help countless number of people in restoring their relationship. I was really convince, I quickly contacted his email address at Dr.lawalkerim@outlook.com . I explain all my problem to him, he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, and it really happen as he said, i was very surprise, this is so amazing.

To God be the glory our relationship is now very tight and we both live happily again. If you having similar problem, Contact him now(Dr.lawalkerim@outlook.com) or call is mobile number +2347061066172, and get your problem solve once and for all. i am a living testimony to it.

1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money.
(10)if you want to stop your divorce.
(11)if you want to divorce your husband.
(12)if you want your wishes to be granted.
once again the email address is dr.lawalkerim@outlook.com contact him immediately.

peyton swayer said...


How are you? i just wanted to let you know...that things worked out very well..well i should have told u this..a week ago..but i wanted to email u when i was fully confident that things are workin out... yuangi is back with me..our relationship is just like before the first time we met...
Ok Dr Obodo ,email Dr @
templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk, cell +2348155425481 if necessary

Henry Westwood said...




I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com I cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck:agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com.ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com

Henry Westwood said...




I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com I cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck:agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com.ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com

Lauren Doxey said...

oh dear, i felt like i had to wait forever for my fiance to say it! i knew i loved him after two weeks and i had to stop myself so many times from saying it. i didn't want to freak him out! all my girlfriends told me to wait for him to say it. we had been dating a month when he said shyly "i think i love you a little bit." i tease him about that all the time that he said it in such a relaxed way and shy way, in case i didn't say it back. i'm so glad i waited and didn't say it first! 6 weeks until our wedding day! can't wait! laurenofthedoxey.blogspot.com

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Moreen Bonds said...

Hello to every one i want to testify of what a spell caster has done for me,i was in a relationship for two years happy with my partner few months to our wedding he left me and went after another woman he never came back home again, i cry all day looking for help i have contacted so many spell caster but no result one day i was on the internet when i came across a testimony on how Dr ehiagwina helped some one to get back his lover so i gave a try and it work out for me am so happy to have my lover back to my self again thanks once again Dr ehiagwina for helping me to bring back my lover if you are passing through the same problem or any kind of situation and you think all hope is lost my dear is not. contact Dr ehiagwina on his email : ehiagwinalovespelltemple@outlook.com

Moreen Bonds said...

Hello to every one i want to testify of what a spell caster has done for me,i was in a relationship for two years happy with my partner few months to our wedding he left me and went after another woman he never came back home again, i cry all day looking for help i have contacted so many spell caster but no result one day i was on the internet when i came across a testimony on how Dr ehiagwina helped some one to get back his lover so i gave a try and it work out for me am so happy to have my lover back to my self again thanks once again Dr ehiagwina for helping me to bring back my lover if you are passing through the same problem or any kind of situation and you think all hope is lost my dear is not. contact Dr ehiagwina on his email : ehiagwinalovespelltemple@outlook.com

alliya johnson said...

Hello to the viewers on this site my name is Mary Cranor i was married to one Mr David Cranor we live and love each other so much am 52 years of age now and we both have 3 grow up children i and my husband love and care for each other our marriage last for 31 years so few years back my husband traveled to Europe for business he spent about 6 months there coming home he came with a young lady which i was not comfortable with i tried all my best and at the end my husband was able to send this lady out of the house and she return to Europe we love our selves again just as before,but after few years we have been together again an old friend of main who traveled to another country Later came back to America he has been a good friend to me and my first lover during our high school days he invite me for denier but i refuse he begged me because it has been long we have meet each other we only chart on Facebook and Skype so granted his invitation this happened on the Christmas night December 24 2013 i went out with him hopefully i will come home that same day i know i was very wrong so getting there i spend lot of time with him and i spend the night with him in a hotel room it was all an incident and i was very assumed of my self when i discovered what i did,but the most painful part of it was my husband friend saw me with this man which i did not even know he went and tell my husband all that happened,when i got home the next day my husband sent me picking my stuff he said is over that he needs a divorce i was heart broken i don't know what to do i love my husband so much and for the sake of my children i can't let go just like that,i share my problem with my a friend of my we work in the same company he introduce me to a powerful spell caster who also help her in her own time of need his name is DOCTOR OTUOBALLA he help me cast a spell and my husband later came back to me begging me to come back home that was how the great powerful spell caster helped me in fixing back my marriage and getting the man i love back to me am very grateful to him my husband return back to me after seven days the incident occurred,are passing through problem in your marriage or relationship? the answer is here DOCTOR OTUOBALLA is here to help you too just as he have helped me contact him now with this email: otuoballaspelltemple@live.com

anon said...

I want to share my testimony on how i was able to get back my husband around December and with the help of Dr Ekaka because my man left me for over 3years and went on with another lady and i was unable to move on with my life because of the love i have for him last month i saw a testimony on the internet on how Dr Ekaka help someone with love spell so i never believe it but just have to try my faith which i did and i contacted him on his email: ekakaspelltemple@yahoo.com and he told me what i need to do and after 2days i received a call from my husband asking me to come back to him it was all like a dream to me i am so happy now as we are back together again thanks to Dr Ekaka and i will advice anyone in need of help to contact him.

ibibo egbo said...

Hello I am Kate from usa ,I am out here to spread this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex lover back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to Dr zadzad the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to Dr zadzad about how my ex lover left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days,My ex lover called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my ex lover called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact Dr zadzad at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct on: zadzadokenevue@gmail.com and get your problems solve.

Ebonie McCloud said...

My name is Ebonie McCloud, My partner and I have been trying for a baby for over two years now, We were going to a fertility clinic for about 9 months before somebody told us to contact this spell caster who is so powerful, We contacted him at this email; dovasagawhitemagictemple@yahoo.com , for him to help us, then we told him our problem, he told us that she we either conceive in January 2013 or February 2013,but after two years of trying we were at a point where we were willing to try anything. And I'm glad we came to Dr. Dova Saga, Because he predictions put us at ease, and I honestly believe him, and his gods really helped us as well, I am thankful for all he has done. If you are in this kind of problem i will advice you to contact him with this email: dovasagawhitemagictemple@yahoo.com web site: www.dovasagawhitemagictemple.webs.com. Thanks

anounymous comment said...


Hi DOC OBODO ,the love spell really work perfectly just receive a call from my ex this morning pleading for my forgiveness and asking me to take he back ,every one DOC OBODO is the right person to contact for help and here his contact info: templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk ,+2348155425481 so that you can also be testifying to his good work



From Anonymous saying living in Georgia USA

Mrs Angelica Londos said...

Hello
My name is Mrs Angelica Londos from united states Daly city ca, i am married with two kids. Life has been a misery for me and my kids for over six years when my husband dumped me for his new mistress due to some minor misunderstanding that we had.
So he engage in a fight with me and throw me out of the house, so all through these sorrowful period of my life, i have been in pain. So one day, as i was browsing through the internet, i came across many post about spell casters testifying how they were helped by them so i decided to seek help and advice. but naturally i didn't believe in spells or magic powers but due to the fact that i was deeply in love with my husband, i decided to go for a try, So i came in contact with Dr. Aire of drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com but before i contact Dr. Aire, i was scammed by alot of spell casters who makes me believe that they can help me. So because of all these, i almost lost hope that i can't get my husband back anymore so when i contacted this Dr. Aire, he assure me that he will help me to reunite my marriage, so without demanding any single cent from me, he did a spell for me and he advice me to wait for just 24 hours. I actually waited as he said, so when it was 24 hours after he did the spell, my husband actually called me on my mobile phone and started apologizing for everything that he had caused me and the kids. This was how my marriage was reunited again and Starting from this point till date, i and my husband has been living peacefully and happily. Anybody viewing this testimony should please stop by and read and if you are so interested in contacting Dr. Aire for any help, simply do that via his email id (drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com) and remain happy.
Thanks.

bestspellcaster said...

I want to use this opportunity to thank drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com for helping me get my lover back after he left me few months ago. I have sent friends and my brothers to beg him for me but he refused and said that it is all over between both of us but when I met this Dr. Stanley, he told me to relaxed that every thing will be fine and after three days and contacted him, I got my man back......Caitlin

bestspellcaster said...

I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another woman. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help. And i saw a testimony of a spell caster (drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com) who help a girl to get her boyfriend back with a love spell and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my love back and now i am a happy woman. For what you have done for me, i will not stop to share your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing. I hope God blesses you as much as you have help me to get my Love back.......Whitney

John said...

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alliya johnson said...

Hello to you all on this site it brings me so much joy and happiness today so i decided to share my happiness and testimony to you all,my name is Sophia am from New York am 52 years old i married to Mr George Cranor he is north America we have 3 grown up children and grandchildren,2 years ago my husband said he needs a divorce that he is no longer interested in the marriage that was how my husband left me with the children and moved to another state with his new girlfriend, i travel to with a friend to visit his husband for Christmas celebration getting there i came across a powerful spell caster who help people to fix their broken marriage and relationship and get ex lover back,the spell caster is called DOCTOR OBALLA he is very powerful he cast a spell for me and he said to me that i should return to my country my husband is waiting for me at home,when i came back to New York i meant my husband with the children waiting for my arrival my husband apologize to me and we are happily married now am very happy i will never forget this powerful spell cater,if you also need his help contact him now with his email: oballaspelltemple@hotmail.com

Matilda Morgan said...

Hello
My name is Angelica Marie from united states, i am married with two kids. Life has been a misery for me and my kids for over six years when my husband dumped me for his new mistress due to some minor misunderstanding that we had. So he engage in a fight with me and throw me out of the house, so all through these sorrowful period of my life, i have been in pain. So one day, as i was browsing through the internet, i came across many post about spell casters testifying how they were helped by them so i decided to seek help and advice. but naturally i didn't believe in spells or magic powers but due to the fact that i was deeply in love with my husband, i decided to go for a try, So i came in contact with Dr.iayaryi of driayaryi2012@hotmail.com but before i contact Dr.iayaryi, i was scammed by a lot of spell casters who makes me believe that they can help me. So because of all these, i almost lost hope that i can't get my husband back anymore so when i contacted this Dr.iayaryi, he assure me that he will help me to reunite my marriage, so without demanding any single cent from me, he did a spell for me and he advice me to wait for just 24 hours. I actually waited as he said, so when it was 24 hours after he did the spell, my husband actually called me on my mobile phone and started apologizing for everything that he had caused me and the kids. This was how my marriage was reunited again and Starting from this point till date, i and my husband has been living peacefully and happily. Anybody viewing this testimony should please stop by and read and if you are so interested in contacting Dr. iayaryi for any help, simply do that via his email id (driayaryi2012@hotmail.com) and remain happy. Thanks.

Matilda Morgan said...

my Names is Daniel brown ,AM from Canada .i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in June last year on a business summit i ment a man called Prophet Lord, is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my loves gone misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job i m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 4weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3 year i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try and in 6 days when i returned to Vancouver my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married i didn't believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help his email address: solutionoflovespelltemple@gmail.com

Matilda Morgan said...

Hello Friends
This is not just a story this is how omonua love spell temple saved my life and that of my family. my name is Mark Williams i have my family here in USA, Just One month ago i felt like i should end my life because my house was on fire that is i had all the problem a man can ever have. I had a very good job and it paid very well and a lovely wife who i love with my whole heart. But some how along the line things went wrong i lost my job. My wife always thought that it was my fault all this happen. It got to the stage my daughter had to drop out of the universities because of lack of fund. This made my wife more angry. She move out of my house with our daughters cos i had nothing to offer them. All i had was my house and my car. I was bankrupted and could not find a job at the smallest firm here my wife started seeing another guy just a month after she left me and filed for a divorce i could kill myself any time soon because my daughter and my wife abandoned me at this time of my life but thank to Dr.omon of omonualovespelltemple@hotmail.com i had all i lost back. I did not even care about the the job i did not have all i wanted was my family back. I went to the internet for some suggestion on how to get back your wife, I saw a lot of tips online and testimony like they wrote on there comment. Some of these comment were so convincing but an anonymous comment talked about how Dr.omon spell temple help him it was just so real, I did not know how i even got to contact him but i did through his email: omonualovespelltemple@hotmail.com. I EXPLAINED my problem to him and i mentioned how i lost my job and every thing started falling apart all he said was that i had a small problem. He told me all he was going to do and what i too will do which include paying some money i did not have i had to risk borrowing and thanks to the spirits of odulduspelltemple that it worked. For the sake of time i just want to say that all he did worked. my wife came back and my daughter too and even got a better job that what i had before. I MOST TELL IF I CAN FIND HELP IN THIS TEMPLE I DO NOT SEE WHY YOU FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY CAN NOT FIND HELP. CONTACT HIM AT: omonualovespelltemple@hotmail.com. Dr.omon is a great and a reliable spell

Matilda Morgan said...

Hello people in this forum
My Name is Dan Anelos ..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i contact this man called prophet viky of victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com Execute some business..He is really powerful..My wife divorce me with no reason for almost 4 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she’s going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 4 years…So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solution…so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she’s with a man and that man is the reason why she left me…The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this…he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and my wife got pregnant a month later..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him here: victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com... CONTACT THIS GREAT AND POWERFUL SPELL CASTER CALLED prophet viky ... HIS EMAIL ADDRES IS :victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com... CONTACT HIM NOW AND BE FAST ABOUT IT SO HE CAN ALSO ATTEND TO YOU BECAUSE THE EARLIER YOU CONTACT HIM NOW THE BETTER FOR YOU TO GET QUICK SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS...

Becky said...

I am Becky by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address dr.okorospelltemple01@gmail.com, have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks for Dr. Okoro. His email: dr.okorospelltemple01@gmail.com

Dr. OKORO NUMBER: +2348053209149

Ebonie McCloud said...

My name is Ebonie McCloud, My partner and I have been trying for a baby for over two years now, We were going to a fertility clinic for about 9 months before somebody told us to contact this spell caster who is so powerful, We contacted him at this email; dovasagawhitemagictemple@yahoo.com , for him to help us, then we told him our problem, he told us that she we either conceive in January 2013 or February 2013,but after two years of trying we were at a point where we were willing to try anything. And I'm glad we came to Dr. Dova Saga, Because he predictions put us at ease, and I honestly believe him, and his gods really helped us as well, I am thankful for all he has done. If you are in this kind of problem i will advice you to contact him with this email: dovasagawhitemagictemple@yahoo.com web site: www.dovasagawhitemagictemple.webs.com. Thanks

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