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Thursday, March 08, 2012

How long do you wait to sleep with someone?

We've talked about everything from break-ups to breasts, so today let's talk about sex...

When it comes to dating, I've always been super slow. I've waited ages before sleeping with new boyfriends. In college, I waited five months to sleep with one boyfriend; and three months to sleep with a later boyfriend. After graduating, I waited more than a year to sleep with a boyfriend I met here in New York.

By the time I met Alex, I was 28 and more confident and bold. Plus, I was head-over-heels for him after our very first date. So, for our third date, I suggested that we "watch a movie" at his apartment. We rented Chinatown, and halfway through, he paused the movie because I wanted to ask a question about the plot....yada, yada, yada, we made waffles the next morning.

I'm curious: How long do you wait to sleep with a new boyfriend or girlfriend? First date? Three dates? Weeks, months, years? Until marriage? Have you ever regretted waiting too long or too little? Spill the beans--and feel free to comment anonymously!
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Anonymous said...

Growing up in the South, I was always told by my community to wait until marriage. Then, as I grew up I started to think about what the concept of marriage actually meant to me, what sex meant to me, etc.

I slept with my first boyfriend after a month (we were both virgins). For some reason, that seemed like a good boundary and when I was ready, I knew it. We dated for almost 2 years and to be honest, the sex was always mediocre. Still, I don't regret my decision and am grateful that my first experience was with him, since he was always patient and understanding.

SO. I am so thankful that I did not wait until marriage because I would not want the pain of the first experience to hinder my honeymoon, and most importantly, I now realize how much physical/sexual compatibility matters in a relationship, even though it almost makes me uncomfortable, in a romantic sense, to claim that.

I am thankful (6 months after the break-up) that we did not end up getting married like we thought we would someday do. Emotional and intellectual connection can only go so far. I look forward to having sex the next time I feel ready, whether that be in another long-term relationship or just a night of fun. Sex can be an extremely emotionally resonant experience (and for us, many times it was), but I'm coming to realize that you know what? It's okay to want to have fun physically. There is so much beauty in the world! Why not enjoy it? It all depends on what is true to you in the moment.

I would like to think that one day I will get married or at least find someone who I can love for the rest of my life, but if things don't work out, then I am glad that I never held myself back from having the experiences that I've had because of any dictations other than my own heart.

Anonymous said...

I waited 3 1/2 years to make love on my wedding night after a long friendship and romantic courtship. My husband and I met as teenagers. We've been together 22 years and married for 18. It was hard (we had some serious attraction to each other), but we're glad we waited and we enjoy each other immensely to this day. It's changed over the years. Sometimes it is full of passion, sometimes to comfort each other, sometimes to make babies, sometimes to meet each other's needs, sometimes it's pure fun and playfulness. A way that I don't connect with any other person.

It's interesting, the Hebrew word yada means a deep knowledge, intimacy, vulnerability. It's opening yourself up emotionally, spiritually, and ultimately physically to another person (and also refers to a relationship one can have with God). It is all entwined together, so I only wanted to experience that deep intimacy, that bond physically, with one person. I wanted yada, to be known, by the one man I would commit my life to and have a safe haven for our children with. I love being truly known by him.

Linda

Anonymous said...

It's funny how different everyone is! I've only slept with one guy, my current boyfriend. We had been essentially dating for about 4 or 5 months before we slept with each other, and I'm glad I didn't just rush into it. I could never regret it, no matter what happened, it was just a great experience. :)

Anonymous said...

My partner and I only waited a month, but we'd known each other for 4 years and had been very good friends for 2years before we got together. I think in the end, putting physical attraction aside, it's entirely about trust. He was my first real boyfriend, and my first lover, but I trusted him entirely. I knew he respected me, I knew that we loved each other, and so it felt right for us. Of course not everyone dates someone they've known for 4 years.

ronaamal said...

I waited about 5 months with my first boyfriend but we were only 16/17. with my current boyfriend I did not wait very long! 10 days, the 3rd time we met. But I don't regret it, I was confident, I felt ready, I was protected and I was in a whole new place emotionally and maturity wise than I was first time round. I can't imagine waiting til marraige. I don't understand why you would deprive yourself, unless it was to do with your religion.

Yohanna said...

I think I will wait to sleep with a guy until I am married. Therefore, I will be more than happy to only list one guy name that I ever slept with.

Anonymous said...

so, i haven't read all the comments, just scanned them quickly. what did strike me as fairly widely used arguments though, were the following (paraphrased for the sake of brevity):
- you should wait until you know you're ready
- waiting is acceptable and doable when you're with someone you love
- there's only *one* first time, so choose wisely who you "give" it to
and a couple more in the same vein.
many of these were referring to the actual first time one has sex.

to me (but really, maybe that's only me), it seems like there's such a huge emphasis on the "loss" of virginity, it's made so special, something to be treasured etc. i don't know, i'm of the opinion that it shouldn't be such a big deal – not as in encouriging people to randomly fuck everything that/who doesn't run away, but as in making clear that purity (ugh)/virginity is not something you can actively lose, it's not an object (let's not talk about the breaking of the hymen here, it can happen in a lot of ways (; ), it's a social construct. i'm pretty sure it would take a lot of pressure away. sex or no sex or sex on the first date or first time with someone you won't marry, these things don't really define people (they're part of them, naturally, but not the most important). i mean, if everybody were expected to wait for the one true love (and it's debatable whether that even exists; sorry, i'm such a cynic), many many people would never ever experience anything sexual. also, virginity is mostly mentioned regarding "conventioanl", i.e. heterosexual penetrative sex. there are a ton of possibilities other than that.

so, i guess i don't really have something coherent to say here, despite all the words. i just think that humanity as a whole needs to get a grip, concerning all those centuries old ideas about what sex is supposed to be. sex is whatever you want it to be, you can choose the right time and place and people, and as long as it's consensual, it's all good in my book.

lovely blog by the way. (:

(i hope i was able to get my general idea across, as my english is pretty rusty. (; )

Antique Engagement Rings said...

I think waiting is essential for a serious relationship

Anonymous said...

It really depends on a lot of things. Like how many dates you have, and what kind of dates they are. Some people spend 20 years married to each other and suddenly realize they don't know each other at all, so I don't think there should be a certain number of weeks before doing it. If you want it and if you're sure that your partner is not going to murder you/steal your kidneys/or do any kind of outrageous things afterwards, then do it.

Becky said...

I'm old school. My husband was my first and not only was I his first sexual experience, I was also his first kiss!

We are weird-os but I like the way we are! :)

Anonymous said...

It's not the timeline that matters to me, just that the decision is consensual. I've yet to regret a single sexual decision because they've all been decisions that I've made out of respect for my body, my partner's body, our relationship (or lack thereof), and our mutual consent.

It has been anywhere from two days to two years, and my current partner and I have been happy and healthy together for three years after three months of waiting. We're actually in a nonmonogamous, long-distance relationship right now, and it operates to much success on totally open, honest, and forthright communication, boundaries, and respect. It's pretty much the greatest!

I will say that I've never felt that I lacked an emotional bond with anyone I've slept with just because it hasn't been the first time. (For the record, I waited two years to sleep with my first love, and we were together for five.) I love my boyfriend and love the bond that we've created, which I don't believe to have been much informed by our sexual timeline.

- Kari, 26

Anonymous said...

I've only slept with two people in my entire life (I'm 26 now). The first guy--in college--was to "pop the cherry", so to speak and the second man is now my fiancee. I had sex with my fiancee on our first date (8 years ago) and I don't regret it one bit. We had and still have amazing chemistry and have been living together for 3 years. We have been completely monogamous. I have friends that span the sexual experience spectrum--from virgins to the very adventurous. I don't ask them about their sex life because it is private and because it is not a place where someone should be given an opportunity to comment or judge. Having sex is a personal choice and people should be allowed to make their own choices, with one caveat--they must practice safe sex.

Susana said...

My long lasting relationships were with guys that I had sex with on the first date. They always respected me and I respected them (this has to go both ways).
When I've waited either I was not so interested or I'd start rationalizing and complicating too much.
With the guys I slept on the first night, there was a click, some kind of chemestry. That's why I think it lasted.
I wouldn't have sex with a random guy, just because.

Anonymous said...

I waited until I was married to have sex, so did my husband.
To respond to a few comments bashing the "waiting" crowd :) :
I don't think "test-driving" is crucial to a successful sexual relationship. What really stood out to me while dating my husband was how loving, patient, kind, and unselfish he is. All of those attributes translate into the bedroom too. He is the sweetest lover I could ever have hoped for. And I knew that he would be before we ever got naked because I knew what he was like and exactly how he felt about me.

Also, I don't personally think it's possible to give of yourself physically without giving or losing something emotionally. That's one of the reasons it was so important to me to wait. And, as my love and emotional connection to my husband has grown, so has the enjoyment I feel during sex. They are totally connected. There's something so powerful about sharing everything in life, including sex, that can only be felt when you have given yourself to each other in marriage.
I think our society is pretty hedonistic which often leads to selfishness. I have found that true sexual enjoyment is just as much about giving pleasure as it is about receiving. That's true unselfish love. It's hard to feel that if you barely know the person. That's why I think sex is actually better when you are in a deeply loving, completely committed relationship.
And, it's important to remember that there are real consequences to sex. I am not talking scare tactics here, but pregnancies can come, stds can come. In a lot of ways I think it's irresponsible to have sex without being married.
Sex is not rocket science, it's okay to wait. You will work it out together which I have found to be a very sweet experience. And I can honestly say I have never had bad sex because there has always been a deep emotional connection with my spouse. So, yeah, the first time hurt, and after I had our baby it hurt again. But sex isn't just physical so the pain didn't even matter. We are learning and growing together, discovering ourselves together. And i LOVE it! And, for all the awkward, hilarious, odd moments that occur sometimes during sex i have always felt SO grateful to be married to my sexual partner. He doesn't care if my nursing breasts leak haha, or if I let out some unfortunate noises, or if I hit him in the face. They are all things that bring us even closer together.
I have always felt a desire to belong and have a family. Sex is so central to that that I will be forever glad I waited. It is a beautifully unifying experience that strengthens our marriage and brings us so much joy.
I don't think there's anything archaic or terrible about waiting. It's actually given me a great sense of self-worth, trust, and love. I would recommend it to anyone!

agapelife said...

I waited until marriage for faith reasons. IT was the right decision for us, but I understand that everyone is different

Kimberly said...

:) Waited until our honeymoon at age 26. No regrets! Happily married and still having lots of fun at almost 40.

Emma said...

Hey! Interesting comments!! I waited until I was married and have never regretted it. I'm a bit surprised by the anger of some on here towards those of us that held out. Especially those that think it's "unnatural" to not give in to every passion. How odd! I'm pretty sure there's a lot of things in life that we may urge for or desire, I don't think it's bad to wait for them! I think self-control is a wonderful thing to learn. Perhaps in our fast, google, easy credit, entitled culture waiting is going out of fashion. I, for one, will always be glad I waited. I think sex has many different purposes - comfort, pure fun, emotional bonding, steamy passion, children making, healing. And, to me, the only place where all of those sexual needs and purposes are met is within marriage. So I think that is worth waiting for, worth controlling yourself for, because the reward at the end is so incredibly powerful. I have learned everything (and am still learning) I need to know about sex from my husband. I think sex is one of those things where setting a few boundaries really sets you free in the end. I now feel completely comfortable, secure, and free to explore all my sexual desires because I am in a committed marriage where I know I will never be rejected or belittled or broken up with. I absolutely love that.

Anonymous said...

Surprised at how many wait. Thanks for sharing

Anonymous said...

I wish that I had waited until marriage, or at least had less of a "if it feels good, do it" attitude, and the multiple partners that come with that mind set. This was in the 70's, but I doubt that things have changed that much, attraction is attraction.

My husband of 30 years and I did sleep together after a couple of dates, and I knew he was the real deal, with or without a roll in the hay. He led a more chaste life, and I really regret my having more experience that he has. And I feel bad being around my college friends who know all the sleeping around I did, and having my husband there because, even though this behavior happened before the two of us met, I don't even want to think about it.

This is a path I wouldn't want my daughters to take. Having lived it, I know that it wasn't cost free for me- and I could list about 10 more reasons. In hindsight, more hesitation and more "nos" would have been a wiser long-term course.

Anastacia said...

My choice - only after the wedding.
I am 26 and I date with my fiance for 2 years. In a few months we're gonna have a wedding and we will wait.
This was my choice because of my desire to have life-long marriage. What I have noticed is if he really loves you he can stand it (dating without sex). If not - he is the wrong one. If he loves you enough to just be with you now when he is full of passion and hormones, he will not cheat on you when you are pregnant of sick because "men CAN"T live without sex".

Anonymous said...

I was with my ex for five years, from age 17 to 22. He was my first and I, his. We waited about two years and it was rocky and scary at first. He then cheated on me three times. We broke up about 9 months ago. I've slept with three people since then, two the first 2 were unfortunate never-gonna-happen-ever-again things, and the last person I was in a relationship with for a few months, who I was crazty about. With him, I waited about two weeks. The attraction was intense and I was dumbstruck by it. All in all, I think it varies person to person and situation by situation. I was with one person from such a young age for a very long time (five years) and felt free after my relationship ended to have new experiences.

Anonymous said...

I too think that you can only listen to yourself when deciding the right moment.
However, I sometimes make promises to myself to make sure that I don't jump into things too quickly.
For example, I had just started seeing this guy who was going to go out of town in a week or so. I thought that I won't sleep with him until after his little trip (I get to see if he is in contact with me a lot while he is away, if he's thinking about me and so on). But before his trip, we ran into each other on a night we were suppose to spend without seeing each other and one thing let to another after he and I went to his place.
Sadly, pretty soon after he came back from his trip he broke up with me using an excuse that he was planning to travel and he cannot make any long-term commitments. That was a strange reason because I was living in that town for a shorter period anyway and I wasn't looking for anything super serious.
Sometimes it seems that waiting would be safer, to protect your own heart and to make sure that the guy has better intentions than just chasing tail.. but I guess us girls want to have fun too, so it depends on the person and the overall situation really.
I don't regret sleeping with that guy though. I always think that the best time one can have in the sack comes from love and knowing one another. Such shorter flings can be fun but they are not that meaningful to me.

Anonymous said...

of course it's different with each guy, because the chemistry is always different. sometimes you're just so sexually attracted to each other right off the bat, sometimes it takes a bit longer for those sparks to fly. sometimes you have a few too many cocktails and end up moving faster than you intended...

Anonymous said...

My husband and I had each decided before we'd met that we would wait until marriage because of our faith. While it took some discipline and setting up some boundaries for the four years we dated, it was SO SO worth it and I've never regretted it for a second! As some commenters have noted, it's sad that virginity has such a stigma, especially in the media. Reading through the comments was actually really encouraging to know that we weren't the only ones who decided to wait!

Anonymous said...

I lost it to my current boyfriend (we're sort of engaged to be engaged) about 4 months in, I was 19. I don't regret that experience at all, but I've always wondered how my first love from high school would have panned out had I been less afraid. I wasn't ready and that's ok, but I sort of wish I had been. He was the perfect first boyfriend for me and had I been more ready I think we would have lasted past that dreaded summer before we went off to college. Not that sex would have kept him more interested, just that it would have definitely intensified our bond. But what's done is done! I love my man and I still look back fondly on my first love, too. Can't ask for much more than that.

Anonymous said...

I wasn't allowed to date, coming from a very strict religious home. When I was nineteen I met a guy a work, he asked me out several times, but I always said no because I wasn't allowed to go out. So, I sat back and watched him date, breakup, and eventually become addicted to heroin because of it. After him going through his break up, we eventually became friends, kinda flirted with each other, and came to know him pretty well. He was a drug dealer, and an ex stripper....and he was my first kiss on my 21st b day. Made out one night
not long after, he asked me to be his girlfriend, but was willing to take things slow bcuz of my inexperience.
Made out ALOT, and experimented with fingering and
such in the first few weeks. Had sex about three
months into our relationship, wasn't great, but I was
ready to get it done. He broke up with me about a week
later, saying he couldn't handle a relationship right then
bcuz of his drug issues. Managed to keep all this
hidden from my parents while still living at home. I don't
regret the experience, though it was kind of awkward. Future relationships I'll just take as they come, even though I was taught to wait to even kiss until the wedding day (which did make me feel a little dirty because of the things I had done, tho it was normal desires and hormones kicking in), I don't think there's a right or wrong answer, you know when the time is right, IMO.

Anonymous said...

I slept with my first boyfriend when I was 15 and we discussed it and it was great. No regrets. However have had been with 3 men since. One long term relationship and 2 short term 'things' where I knew the person for a while before hand although they weren't my boyfriends as such.

Now it has been 4 years since my last boyfriend and although the opportunity presents itself - I just havent met anyone I like very much! Hopefully it's coming soon! Girls desire it just as much as boys! But it doesn't mean I want to do it with just anyone. So I'll continue to wait for someone awesome...

bz said...

Well call me a slut, but I took my now husband home after a brief meeting in a bar. And he just never left.

But before that I slept with a bunch of people - some I knew longer than others and some meant more to me than others. I did it responsibly and don't feel like those choices made it harder to find a good man to marry.

brooklyn, 30 - with a husband, a baby, and a healthy attitude about sex!

Anonymous said...

It seems to me that there is SUCH a stigma about sex, when there really needn't be. As long as it is safe and consenting if it feels good- do it! Personally I love having sex, it is a part of who I am. I like feeling good, experiencing pleasure and living life. Maybe that makes me sound like a tramp, but hey, I'm pretty dang happy and just had my three year anniversary with my amazing boyfriend so... And for the record, we totally would have slept together on our first date but the universe conspired against us. (I feel the need to point out that while neither of us have any qualms about immediate sex, neither of us cheat.)

For a lot of people sex has to be meaningful and important, and I think that's wonderful! But causal passionate sex is wonderful too. Certain things work for certain people.

Anonymous said...

I am 25 and have only been with 2 people. My first time was in high school with my first serious boyfriend... we waited 5 months. We dated through most of college and broke up senior year. Almost immediately afterward I slept with my good guy friend. Today we've been married 2 years! So I guess I waited negative months... but iI would not change it for anything! I think it's a very personal decision unique to every person. Makes for very fun topic of conversation though!

Alyssa said...

I'm so incredibly encouraged by this thread of comments, so glad to know I'm not the only one out there waiting for marriage!

Anonymous said...

In a perfect world we would be raised in good families with morals and ethics and taught about sex in a worldly way, not just that we shouldn't have it, that we can get pregnant etc, but that we as women can be left feeling used and abused. Sadly for some, like myself, we were used and abused and having that "first" time choice was taken away from us. Having that happen changes ones whole world, and the decisions that follow. Who knows what I would have done had I not been raped. I will never know. I will teach my daughter what I think is important and let her make her own decisions - I do however think sex is an adults game and one teenagers jump into too fast. I don't want her to regret any decision she makes. You are lucky if you can decide when the right time is and if you indeed want to wait for marriage.

Anonymous said...

I believe that female sexuality can be such an empowering thing. I lost my virginity to my high school sweetheart after a year of dating. Since then I've dated casually, and had 3 relationships that lasted over a year. Some men I dated I slept with right away, others I never slept with and just enjoyed the company. I've only regretted having sex once, because that partner didn't care about making sure I enjoyed our time together, he had been pretty considerate on a couple of dates though, so it threw me off a bit! For me it's about trusting myself and my partners, and that happens at different points with different people. The serious relationships I had were so informative to me and taught me so much about communicating, compromising, and learning what I really want from a relationship, and that incudes sex. Human sexuality is an important part of any romantic relationship, and with every partner I've had, I learned something about what I like, what I don't like, what makes me feel closer, more intimate etc. In my last relationship, my boyfriend and I became so in tune with one another and even after two years the sex just kept getting better and better. If I hadn't had other experiences to compare it to, I don't know if I would have known enough about my own body and my sexuality to be able to communicate so clearly, openly and honestly. Thanks for opening this up! (Pun intended!)

Anonymous said...

I think it's simple. You have sex, when you feel like it. Wait if you feel like it. Do it if you feel like it. Just don't worry about; it it 's all fine in the end.

Anonymous said...

My husband and I waited until marriage - and regretted the 'messing around' we did with others before we met each other. Those who say that waiting is archaic and boring aren't the ones waiting - and don't know how great it is : ) Studies show women who become sexually active early and co-habitate are more likely to get divorced than those who do not.

whiskey jane said...

When I met my first boyfriend, I waited as long as I could to sleep with him; I think it amounted to a month. After him, I waited a year before having sex again. Since then? Guys rarely made it safely home from a night with me with their pants intact.
Now I'm happily married, and my husband and I are both glad we had as much wild, crazy, awkward, satisfying and fun sex as we could before we settled down and found each other. Because sex is fun. It's not a magical act you can use to redefine your self worth by avoiding or chasing it.
And, as someone before me mentioned, virginity is *very* heteronormative, and a social construction that doesn't have a real social value other than placing unnecessary pressure on people who are fully capable of creating their own sexual pace.

Mary said...

I still haven't "done the deed", as they say, and I'm almost 20 years old! Granted, I'm not in a relationship quite yet but the ones I have been in the past just didn't feel right and I'm so glad I didn't. I'd rather wait for a guy who I'm super comfortable with as both a friend and a "lover" (does that sound silly for a 19 year old to say?) to lose my virginity to. I'm quite literally the only one of my friends who is "holding out", which can sometimes be difficult and annoying when they share stories about their sexcapades but I honestly think that waiting for a super-solid, grounded, mature relationship to start having a sex life is the way to go, for me at least.

Anonymous said...

I've only slept with one guy: my now-fiance. We had been together for over two years at the time. Initially we planned on waiting until marriage but I don't regret it at all! Seven years into our relationship and we're getting married this summer. I think seven years would have been a long time for us to wait... So happy with the decisions we made!

Anonymous said...

Oh, and just to clarify, I commented earlier saying I've only had sex with my fiance and wanted to mention I'm not religious. Totally cool if you are but I want to point out that there are non-religious people who are monogamous too. I think each situation is different.

Anonymous said...

totally depends on the people....However, if youre not careful things happen...I had a crush on this guy I met and had been talking to... we were both drunk one night and met up.. I said no sex.. but he was just too darn sexy, we ended up having sex.. AND YUP.. also the result of our decisions I am now pregnant! I am also in my mid-twenties.. but an unplanned pregnancy with your non-boyfriend is not really a good time for anyone.. so slow and steady is not a bad thing... However, the sex we did have to make our baby was 6 hours long and fricking fantastic.. BUT nothing wrong with slow and steady.. still wins the race ;)

Anonymous said...

Really interesting topic!

I've never before thought of a 'waiting time' or attempted to wait until I reached an acceptable waiting period.

Sex was not a taboo subject in my family and I was always empowered to believe that sex, as part of an emotional connection with someone, can be right at any time. For my first boyfriend, that was over a year. For my current partner, whom I want to spend my forever with, it was a day.

Often the pressure I felt, was concerning 'how long I'd waited'.

It was when I adjusted my behaviour according to time constraints, that I regretted choosing that moment or man.

When I went with my gut feeling, I always felt empowered.

Anonymous said...

I've been dating the man I hope to marry someday for about 7months now. Our relationship started out in a sort of crisis time in life and led to a quick phsycial relationship and intensity. If we had just gone off our feelings and desires right away we would have had sex - but it was not the right time. We know that we both want to wait to share that for marriage. I'm so glad, even though it has been very, very difficult many times, that we have communicated our intentions to wait. It lets us have the freedom find ways to love each other in other ways that are healthy for our relationship at this stage.

It's been difficult for me to reconcile a past one-night stand though. One drunk night with a man I had just met was not the way I had pictured. I think the intimacy of sex should be honored in a commited loving relationship and my mistake over a year ago now comes into play in my current relationship. If the two of us are truly meant to be and take the next step towards marriage, I know that the wedding night and the rest of our lives together will be so worth the wait and whatever struggle there is now!

Anonymous said...

I am your faithful reader and I love the diversity of opinions on this blog. I would love to hear what you girls think when it comes to the question 'how long do you wait to sleep with someone (esle)' when you've been married for 10 years? It is a very sensitive question. Did it ever cross your or your husband's mind? How would you handle this in the future if you fall in love with someone else? Never in my wildest dreams I thought my husband would be falling in love with other people. But it happens. And I guess it's a part of life. Now I'm kind of wondering if I should/could/need to do the same??

Anonymous said...

The more I like someone, the more I like to draw it out. Unfortunately, haven't had the chance to do that since... well, since I decided that was how I felt :) I was with my first boyfriend for four months and didn't sleep with him, I was with the second one for 5 months... and we had sex two months after we broke up. Oops. But once that happened... well let's just say I've slept with a lot of people I've only known for a few hours and then have never seen them again. But when I find someone special and I get to go in that direction with them... I'll savor every step slowly along the way.

Anonymous said...

I don't know if anyone can ever feel "ready" to loose their virginity. I just did it when I knew the guy wasn't a loudmouth. I always felt that when two people have sex, it is their business and their business alone. I'm not sure how possible that would've been in high school, and it never really felt like the right thing to do then. So I waited, lost it when I was 18 to someone I wasn't exclusive with at the time but to someone I knew I could trust. Thankfully, he turned out to be the most amazing man I've ever met. We are still together and are getting married. :)

Anonymous said...

Hey everybody ! Personally I'm 23 I'm french and perhaps I doesn't have the same sexuality education. For the first time I waited over one year to sleep with my boyfriend. Now it depends of the situation and the man. But i think sincerely that nothing changes if you sleep with previous boyfriends the first night from the moment YOU DECIDE to sleep with him.

Kate said...

Great post, Joanna! Really enjoying reading these comments! Many of them so different from my own thoughts on sex and dating.

I tended to wait quite a while back when I was dating...at least a few months. My current b/f of 4 years and I waited for 5 months. I would be lying if I didn't say that I back then I did think about what a guy would think of me if I slept with him "too soon". I probably spent too much time worrying about what he thought and not enough time thinking about my feelings and readiness. But, mostly I think I waited because I was a bit nervous, not super confident with men. I like the idea of waiting until there's some trust and more serious interest developed, but ultimately I would want to know I was sexually compatible with someone before a huge commitment like marriage or kids. Glad to hear, however that the wait is very worth it for many of you!

I WISH I could hear additional perspectives on this! Seems like we've mostly got straight ladies in the house.

Erika said...

I have actually never had a boyfriend, I've never sought out to have one. Anytime I slept with a guy it was in the heat of the moment, and overwhelming chemistry attraction. Of the handful of guys I have been with, I only would take back one because I wouldn't have done that sober. I had a hook up relationship for 3 years, and even though it wasn't ideal we were monogamous; he just was really shy to date. lol This was all in college and after I decided that I wanted more and had time to give more I told my self that when I do find myself with guys in the future, I do not want to sleep with a guy until we have been together for a while, but it will just depend. I wouldn't take it back but I personally have moved on and want something long lasting.

Anonymous said...

Again, I agree that it's different for each individual, and each relationship.

Personally, I've usually only waited a couple of weeks, and sometimes even on the first date.

My current boyfriend and I had known each other as friends for a couple of years before we got together, so that was another first date incident! But I'm happier than I've ever been, so don't regret it in the slightest!

Nanda said...

We waited (not easily, of course!) for our wedding night. It was originally our dedication to our shared beliefs (we're both LDS),but now looking back, I am so grateful for so many reasons that both my husband and I were virgins when we married. (Not for lack of options, but by choice, even though it was always a struggle to stick to that choice, by human nature!)

Sarah Crosby said...

I want to take bits and pieces from everyone else comments!

I too cannot believe that so many people waited until marriage! So awesome.

My husband and I waited until we were married. We are Jesus people too! It was the hardest and best decision we ever made.

Our wedding night wasn't one for the books but we have made up for it in the past 2 years of marriage!

I love that we have only been with each other and don't have any other baggage along with that aspect of our relationship!

I believe our sex life is as great as it is because we waited... but thats just my opinion!

Anonymous said...

Like everyone is saying, it depends on the relationship. But I've never really been one to wait too long. I don't think of sex as this big holy event that can only happen during marriage or when the setting is juuuuuuuust right. I also dislike the double standard between men and women about sex: men can have sex as often as they want with however many women they want, but women who don't wait until they're in a relationship to have sex are deemed "sluts" and "whores". I do think "sluts" exist (and obviously whores do), but I think that's more of a matter of WHY you're having sex with so many people so often. Is it because you hate your father? Yourself? Think you aren't good enough for something deeper? But if there is a true attraction and desire between two people, I don't see the problem with doing it on the first meeting or waiting until marriage, or anything in between.

My last boyfriend and I slept together the second day we knew each other. We were together for four years (which is a lot for me since I'm only 23 now). My current boyfriend and I slept together the first night we met, and I have no regrets about that. I didn't expect anything from either of them when we slept together, and I think that is key. That avoids hurt feelings and, even more ideally, can lead to respect and trust, and even a deeper mutual attraction (assuming neither of you is too crazy for the other).

Maybe I'm rambling a little... I've had a glass of wine. But I think if two people work well together, the amount of time they wait to have sex won't make a difference. And if two people don't work well together, they'll only be prolonging the inevitable by waiting for sex.

Anonymous said...

I have been raised in a strong Baptist family and church, where I have been taught that God calls me to wait to have sex until I am married. When I was 13, I made a personal commitment to wait, and to wait to kiss until my wedding as well (and to wait to say I love you until engagement.)

So far, so good. I have been dating my boyfriend who I am pretty certain I will marry in the next 2 years, and he has also waited for these things, and has told me several times, "I will not be the guy to take these things away from you." His humble care for me has been such a wonderful thing!

People probably think I'm crazy for waiting so much, and that's okay. I know I am showing my love to God by following His commands and His design.

As for the concerns of being "sexually incompatible"? I'm not too worried at all, because the Bible teaches that sex is not actually to just make ME happy. Through sex, the husband and wife can show love to one another by serving one another's personal preferences. It's not just an act of pleasure--it's an act of giving in love.

And the issue of being experienced on my wedding night? I'm also not concerned about that. I am excited to learn and grow with my husband, who will more than likely also have waited, and we'll figure it out together. Besides, what do I have to compare it to?

I know that there will be times when waiting for these things will not be easy. I'm not naive. But it is a JOY for me to wait, and to show love to God and to my future husband through waiting.

In order to make things a little easier, we have done a few things--we don't spend time in a house alone together. We are also kept accountable by my parents, our close friends, and our pastor and his wife (who are the sweetest, most caring couple ever!)

I know the road of waiting won't always be easy. But it is absolutely worth it.

Anonymous said...

never, actually. for the question.

i think im one of those weirdoes out there in this case. i havent slept with any of my bf-s before 20.

i didnt have any glorious thoughts about it, making it sth hyper special, or planning to wait. it just happened so.
im actually quite negative about physical relationships. again, its not a choice from my side, its just making me feel bad, even kissing. i hate it. its disgusting for me. not because i think about it as sth disgusting, but its making me feel disgusted. no matter what. so i didnt have much good expectations about sex already.
its really sth strange. if you saw me in real this is around the last things you would be expecting..

the only male who understood it was my most serious relationship so far, lasted nearly 3 yrs. around half-way we argued really big (he wanted to engage me, and i rejected..), broke up, and after about 5 months i had a boy who wasnt the type to ask for my opinion or wishes.
he was a good guy, he was just a bad boyfriend. he just decided that we are in relationship, he never asked me about it, and he was acting that way. after a month of "his relationship" he was basically pushing me into the situation. he wasnt accepting any no-s. after 20 mins i clearly stopped him, cause i was really feeling nauseous about the whole thing. the same scenario happened with him after 2 months after this, i was off-guard. again stopped after some time. nauseous again, and.. bored. i was thinking (while watching tv at the back) what the hell is good about this, its disgusting, bad, and boring. after this i was determined to not to see him again. but he didnt give me a choice, what a surprise, so we were in his relationship for about 4 months after this. no sexs in that 4 months, it required real orginizing skills from my side to be able to dodge it.
while i was seeing my last bf again, running to him for comforting, and eventually got together with him again for another a year and a half. with him no sex again. we broke up because we had no more love for each other at the end. at least from my side for sure.

since then i havent had a bf, and even thinking about having a bf makes me sick. no more, thanks.

and im.. even when i think about the marriage situation where you normally HAVE TO have sex min 3 times a week... reading this post where you HAVE TO MAKE your significant other to not to do anything. when you basically HAVE TO ask for some rest.
.. i just feel like throwing up.
not for me.
i guess i wasnt born for this. and i dont even regret it.

Mary said...

Congratulations! That is what I aim to do too. It's not that I don't want to do the deed, but I want to make sure that we are equally committed for the long haul because only then do I feel like I could do it without any regret.

Sydni said...

i can not imagine having memories or experiences of being intimate or naked with another man. my hubby and i waited until we were married, and i've never even kissed any guy besides him! it means so much that he's the only one who knows my body, and it's all his! once we got married and started having sex i hated that i actually had to start worrying about the possibility of getting pregnant! i could not have handled that any sooner. not to mention we don't have to worry about std's. so many reasons it's the best choice - and it's the way God planned it to be. His way is always best. :) it makes marriage so much more meaningful, as it rightfully should be.

Eva Gallant said...

What an interesting post as well as interesting comments. I was 23 when I first had sex; it was with my husband and we had waited 3 years until we were married. Twelve years later we divorced. During the marriage, I realized we were not compatible; I wanted to have sex a couple of times a week--he would have been happy with a couple of times per year!

After that, I had numerous relationships; for some we waited a few months, for others, we had sex on the first date. Some of those were one night stands, some lasted for months. Then I met my current husband; we dated for 4 months before having sex. We were married a year later, and now it's been 29 years. I regret nothing! We both have had numerous partners in the past and our sexual relationship has been the better for it.

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Lena said...

I don't think it is about an 'unattainable ideal about it being a magical experience,' but rather stepping into marriage knowing you weren't shared with countless other people and neither was your partner. And I also don't believe our culture is fascinated or obsessed with staying pure for marriage. Waiting until marriage seems to actually be considered 'old fashioned' by our fast paced self serving culture. I do though agree that a woman should never feel pressured.

Ellie C said...

I'm glad I found this thread, because I just had my first date (albeit mediocre) in a whole year! I'm 19 and a virgin, but you know, being off the game for a whole year made me put things in perspective. Reading all these wonderful comments I realized that 1) I don't need to pressure myself, and that 2) this guy definitely isn't IT.
Sometimes I still feel off or weird for being a virgin and being almost 20, but here I found a few like myself. I'm so glad. :) Thank you everyone. You're all so wonderful and admirable! Great advise.

PaníUlrichová said...

We both waited until our wedding day for both kissing and sex. Totally worth it!

megmangan said...

My husband and I slept together before we started officially dating. We had been good friends for a while and I had just gotten out of an abusive relationship and not looking for a relationship and neither was he. But luckily the not wanting a relationship did not last very long.In fact we always joke that we never really dated, one day we were just living together. It worked for us, but I recognize that every person is different and what works for one may not work for others.

Eden said...

Your the expert aren't ya? Coming from someone who did wait, I'm glad I did. If someone is kind, respectful,loving and exciting in your relationship, what makes you think they wouldn't be in bed? I think waiting made me more attuned to those subtle nuances between me and the men I dated. For me sex would have been a distraction from what I really find important. And finding a man who will wait two years for you...I know my husband would do anything for me. I have absolutely NO complaints in the bedroom. Just because it's not your way, doesn't mean it's wrong. I'm not putting down your life decisions. Please don't put down mine...

Cuttysark said...

I think it depends on your boyfriend and the status of your relationship. But i dont think one should sleep right away on their first date!

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Ok. Im a guy reading this and Im pretty far Down the list when I realize wow all these girls are posses a trait that I find is awesome - they require a connection of some sort before they give it up. They're not just having meaningless or drunk sex. Super hot and a dying trait IMO. Then I realized that not all women are this way but reading the article comments you'd think it was the majority. Granted I didn't know there was four hundred and something comments so I'll keep on reading and hope it changes because it just shows that the posters are being honest. If 400 plus comments arent peppered with first date d#ckdowns then it stands to reason that women do sleep with guys on the first night or the 2nd or 3rd aren't ever proud of and its looked upon as such by the majority - even ones who do it. Women know better than anyone that this is not a skill that guys are proud to voice thier partner possesed and exercised regularly.. . .

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My name is Mrs jennet from Chicago am 25 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail, i cry and cry seeking for help, i discussed it with my best friend Allix and she promise to help me. She told me of a man called DR LAWAL KERIM, she told me he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot solve and she told me how he has help countless number of people in restoring their relationship. I was really convince, I quickly contacted his email address at Dr.lawalkerim@outlook.com . I explain all my problem to him, he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, and it really happen as he said, i was very surprise, this is so amazing.

To God be the glory our relationship is now very tight and we both live happily again. If you having similar problem, Contact him now(Dr.lawalkerim@outlook.com) or call is mobile number +2347061066172, and get your problem solve once and for all. i am a living testimony to it.

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This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me..My name is Olivia mike, and I base in London.My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called papa Justus who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called grace,she testified about how papa Justus brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop papa Justus e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give papa a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. papa Justus is really a talented and gifted man and i will not to stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great papa Justus today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact:
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(1)If you want your ex back.
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(3)You want to be promoted in your office.
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(6)[You want to be rich.
(7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
(8)If you need financial assistance.
(9)Herbal care
10)Help bringing people out of prison
(11)Marriage Spells
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(13)Beauty Spells
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(15)Attraction Spells
(16)Evil Eye Spells
(17)Kissing Spell
(18)Remove Sickness Spells
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(20)SUCCESS IN EXAMS SPELLS
(21) Charm to get who to love you.
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I am really happy that dr.marnish reunited i and my lover back. dr.marnish@yahoocom is a rare spell caster to find and I’m glad that I met him on time to help me bring back my lover. I’ll be forever thankful.” if you need his help too you can call him +15036626930 dr.marnish based in united state
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harry white said...

A GREAT SPELL CASTER(Laco)THAT HELP BRING MY EX BOY FRIEND BACK TO ME. My my name is Leah Snyder i want to testify about a great spell caster that helped me when all hope was lost. I broke up with my ex boyfriend with just little misunderstanding hoping we will get back shortly,but things was growing worse until i contacted Dr (Laco) who help me with his powers to bring him back, i have never believed in a spell caster until i come across Dr (Laco)Well it will be of great sin if i should go out from here without dropping the contact of this great spell caster,in case you need the help of this great spell caster you can contact him through his email address:(lacopowerfulspellcaster@yahoo.com) once you contact him all your problems will be over,once again i say very big thanks to you sir for helping me to recover my ex boyfriend, and please sir keep your good work cause people may need your help.

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Silva Lure said...


Hello everyone i know how you all feel, but i want to also tell you in this Forum that you too can have a good relationship because my ex-boyfriend and i also had issues, My Name is Maria (mariaalejandro26@yahoo.com) i was by my Ex- Boyfriend dumped me 2 months ago after I caught him having an affair with my best friend and i insulted him then we broke up. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confused and didn’t know what to do, so I visited the INTERNET for help and I saw a testimony of how a Love Psychic help them to get their ex back so I contacted the Love Psychic and explain my problems to him….. He cast a spell for me and assure me that after one week that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise after 5days my Pedro Alejandro came knocking on my door and begging for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr. John, you are truly talented and gifted. He is the only answer to any relationship problem. He can be of great help to you and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man contact him through his
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Silva Lure said...


Hello everyone i know how you all feel, but i want to also tell you in this Forum that you too can have a good relationship because my ex-boyfriend and i also had issues, My Name is Maria (mariaalejandro26@yahoo.com) i was by my Ex- Boyfriend dumped me 2 months ago after I caught him having an affair with my best friend and i insulted him then we broke up. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confused and didn’t know what to do, so I visited the INTERNET for help and I saw a testimony of how a Love Psychic help them to get their ex back so I contacted the Love Psychic and explain my problems to him….. He cast a spell for me and assure me that after one week that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise after 5days my Pedro Alejandro came knocking on my door and begging for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr. John, you are truly talented and gifted. He is the only answer to any relationship problem. He can be of great help to you and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man contact him through his
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Whatsapp or Tel: +2348072034149

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Good Day,,, Mr name is Mrs Victoria Cole, Am from Florida, I had a serious quarrel with my husband due to my parent, my parent never like him to be my husband, but i love him so much that i will rather die to let him go off me, that was how i met this great man of voodoo online, he told me that everything will be fine that he can do a spell that will make my parent love him and allow me to marry him without any quarrel thoroughly it came to pass my mum and dad love him most than before we are now happy married family,please help me in thanking him for his help, here is the email esangopriest@gmail.com

Mike Brock said...

I waited till I was married to have sex. I am truly sorry for waiting, as this is when it was fully revealed to me that she had a totally viewpoint of making love. For her it was a necessary chore to do to make the marriage "Holy". I have listened to many preachers and religious leaders about waiting for love making, and disagree with them all. Some will say that there must have been other signs of lack of sexual compatibility, but it was not apparent to me. It was a must humiliating, painful and difficult situation to live with for 23 years. Trying to do the right things, the honourable things, and accept my fate.And this was after counciling and therapy and much dialog. Waiting to have sex is of course important to get that connected feeling with your mate, waiting longer when younger, and waiting less when older, after gaining wisdom.Whether its 3 months, 3 years,its best to discuss the subject with your mate so that a ramp in can be done without pushing the lack of respect envelope too quickly. Going to 1st base, 2nd base is perfect to learn about the most intimate side of your mate.We need to respect ourselves, and our mates above all.

elizberth dos santos said...

i just got my ex back few days ago through the help of Dr Lawrence i am so happy that finally my ex is back i do love him so much and i can't resist a moment without him in my life,really i have been looking for a real and genuine spell caster who could bring him back to me but thank God today he is back and i own all thanks to this great spell caster Dr Lawrence for his kind help drlawrencespelltemple@hotmail.com,

Guest said...

My name is Sheri, i'm from Mexico i have been married for 4years and i have a break up with my husband 3months ago and i was worried and so confuse because i love him so much. i was really going too depressed and a friend directed me to this spell caster Dr. Stanley and i made all my problems known to him and he told me not to worry that he was going to make my husband to come back to me and in just 48hours i receive a call from my husband and he was appealing that i should come back to the house. i have never in my life believe in spell and but now it have just helped me and i am now so happy. All Thanks to him and if you also want to have your Husband back to yourself here his email Address drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com i am so happy to testify of your work and kindness.

Guest said...

My name is Sheri, i'm from Mexico i have been married for 4years and i have a break up with my husband 3months ago and i was worried and so confuse because i love him so much. i was really going too depressed and a friend directed me to this spell caster Dr. Stanley and i made all my problems known to him and he told me not to worry that he was going to make my husband to come back to me and in just 48hours i receive a call from my husband and he was appealing that i should come back to the house. i have never in my life believe in spell and but now it have just helped me and i am now so happy. All Thanks to him and if you also want to have your Husband back to yourself here his email Address drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com i am so happy to testify of your work and kindness.

Kristina Kalabokas said...

Three to four dates, generally. I need to know if I'm sexually compatible with someone before I see them as a possible partner. Sorry to be blunt but if they're terrible in bed I see absolutely no future with them.

sandra thams said...

My husband broke up with me a month ago because of the little misunderstanding will had, he was dating other young lady and he never take me out again he was totally changed and he never listen to any thing i told him. one day he came and told me he is bringing in other lady in our home, i was so frustrated so when i came across
Dr.airiohuodion (airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com) how he use to rebuild broken home and make their family to reunite together again, so i quickly email him and explain all my problem to him and he guarantee me that my husband will definable want me back after the reunite spell. After everything my husband (SAM) came back to tell me he still love and cherish me that he promise never to cheat on me any more i was so happy and i quickly email Dr.airiohuodion (airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com) and thank him for the
wonderful spell, he was God sent and if you need his helping hand contact his direct email at.(airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com).

sandra thams said...

My husband broke up with me a month ago because of the little misunderstanding will had, he was dating other young lady and he never take me out again he was totally changed and he never listen to any thing i told him. one day he came and told me he is bringing in other lady in our home, i was so frustrated so when i came across
Dr.airiohuodion (airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com) how he use to rebuild broken home and make their family to reunite together again, so i quickly email him and explain all my problem to him and he guarantee me that my husband will definable want me back after the reunite spell. After everything my husband (SAM) came back to tell me he still love and cherish me that he promise never to cheat on me any more i was so happy and i quickly email Dr.airiohuodion (airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com) and thank him for the
wonderful spell, he was God sent and if you need his helping hand contact his direct email at.(airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com).

sandra thams said...

My husband broke up with me a month ago because of the little misunderstanding will had, he was dating other young lady and he never take me out again he was totally changed and he never listen to any thing i told him. one day he came and told me he is bringing in other lady in our home, i was so frustrated so when i came across
Dr.airiohuodion (airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com) how he use to rebuild broken home and make their family to reunite together again, so i quickly email him and explain all my problem to him and he guarantee me that my husband will definable want me back after the reunite spell. After everything my husband (SAM) came back to tell me he still love and cherish me that he promise never to cheat on me any more i was so happy and i quickly email Dr.airiohuodion (airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com) and thank him for the
wonderful spell, he was God sent and if you need his helping hand contact his direct email at.(airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com).

harry white said...

My name is John Sheri i'm from California i have been married for 4years and i have a break up with my husband 3months ago and i was worried and so confuse because i love him so much. i was really going too depressed and a friend directed me to this spell caster Dr. Laco and i made all my problems known to him and he told me not to worry that he was going to make my husband to come back to me and in just 48hours i receive a call from my husband and he was appealing that i should come back to the house. i have never in my life believe in spell and but now it have just helped me and i am now so happy. All Thanks to him and if you also want to have your Husband back to yourself here !! his email Address lacopowerfulspellcaster@yahoo.com i am so happy to testify of your work and kindness

Swata said...

"I was a little bit skeptical in the beginning and the reason is we've tried different marriage counselors already and spell caster and I've already read numerous other books on the subject. There wasn't anything I could seem to do. However after using Dr. Stanley spell and following the instruction he gave me, I have been seeing significant results with my marriage situation. And I'm a whole lot happier in my self. My friends and family are very glad to see that I'm back to my husband again! All thanks to drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com." --Walsh, Seattle

Swata said...

"Before I came across your name on the internet, my marriage was in serious danger of heading towards divorce. Now we are in a better place than we ever were before because of the spell you cast on my husband. Thank you so much for my husband is back to me and the kids!" You can contact this spell caster if you need his help via drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com
--Khan , Huntington Beach

legpain said...

I really need help with this. I have been seeing a great woman for a month now. We have been on several ( more than 25 ) dates. We have been to dinners, movies, traveling, romantic boat rides etc. We have not had sex unless you count me performing fellatio on her. She will not perform ANY sexual acts on me. Matter of fact she does not even call me her boyfriend. Says she wants to wait 6 months and a ring to be considered my boyfriend. Now I do not have a problem buying her a ring and such, but she does not speak to me kindly anymore. no baby, sunshine etc. I really care about her, but I feel at times like a sucker. I know she is under some pressure at work for the next few days, but pressure at work has never been an issue. I do believe in pleasuring my partner but it cannot be a one way street. Part of me wants to call it quits, but part of me want's to give it more time. But how much more is enough.

thanking spiral said...

I've been really depress and been in so much pains after my wife left me. Our son is just 8 without his mother. Life can be very displeasing especially when i try every way possible to get her back and all i got is been scammed by this fake Spiritual Spell Casters.... I'm new on this spell stuff but after talking and chatting with Dr. Abby of sacredspiralgoddesstemple@gmail.com then i realize he is the man i can completely trust. I know there are many of you out there who are in the same problem too and also looking for a real spell caster that can give wealth and bring back your love once.. Dr. Abby spell is real and in just 3 days of his spell my whole story got turn around and things started to be as before.

I followed his advice and Spell instructions, and fortunately, I'm a success story! Kathy is back now and im so glad our son got to see his mother again. Now we're better than ever. Dr. Abby spell really worked and he has been very helpful, and I can't believe it worked so well! I'm honestly, still in shock! :) If you feel like your relationship is salvageable, and you need help contact him 24/7 on sacredspiralgoddesstemple@gmail.com

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Mabel ramsey said...

Dr Lababa you have really proven to me that you are a genuine spell caster, my husband is back home even earlier than i expected him, your spell is really active, genuine and reliable like people always say. I will forever see you as the saviour to my marriage. Dr Lababa am so so happy i found you. incase you have be scammed before or you need a genuine spell caster contact Dr Lababa on lababasolutiontemple@gmail.com

Emily Laurens said...

I never believed in love spells or magic until I met this spell caster Dr.okpodu which a friend of mine told me about on (dr.okpoduspellhome@gmail.com) he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony because the man I wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down because our relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his family was against us and he had no good paying job. So when I met this spell caster, I told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first I was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but I just gave it a try. And in 8 days when I returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now my husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it because the spell caster only asked for my name and my boy friends name and all I wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is dr.okpoduspellhome@gmail.com; you can also contact him for help. I wish you good luck

Ero Lovespell said...

Hi My name is 'Bruno Rico' just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage... I was married for 7years with 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time... it got worse at a point that she filed for divorce... I tried my best to make her change her mind & stay with me cause i loved her with all my heart and didn't want to loose her but everything just didn't work out... she moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce... I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out... I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice... He did special prayers and used roots and herbs... Within 7 days she called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma she had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our third child. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news... Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need's it... You can email him via eromosalspiritualtemple@gmail.com Don't give up just yet, the different between 'Ordinary' & 'Extra-Ordinary' is the 'Extra' so make extra effort to save your marriage/relationship if it's truly worth it.

destiny spell said...

My name is miss jennifer, am from usa, what a wonderful and a straight forward spell caster that has brought back joy and happiness into my life after i saw a post on how he helped a lady called Cassandra,i decided to contact him for help when i told this God sent man Dr destiny on how my lover left me for 2 years without calling nor testing me,When i shared this my sad experience with Dr destiny he said everything would be okay within 2 days i was like am i sure what this man is saying is real,So i decided to give a try and i what even surprised me the most at first i was also thinking he was a scam i taught he was like other spell caster who come online to add pain to peoples pain not knowing there feelings but to make money,But this great man Dr destiny is never like that his own is for good and make people to be happy with the one they love,Am just so happy,Even before the 3 days i just got a call from a man who has left me for 2 years saying he his sorry and that he wants me back to his life i was so happy,He invited me for a dinner which i meant him there and we bought talked and he said he wants to prove that he would never leave me for any other lady he engaged me and also make me had access to all his account am so happy all thanks goes to this great man Dr destiny a man who has brought back joy to my life,Please friends that needs help i would advice and swear that Dr destiny is the right man and not those fake ones who are online to make money and not to help here is Dr destiny "his private email: destinyspelltemple@gmail.com

dr abel justus said...


This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me..My name is Olivia mike, and I base in London.My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called papa Justus who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called grace,she testified about how papa Justus brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop papa Justus e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give papa a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. papa Justus is really a talented and gifted man and i will not to stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great papa Justus today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact:
drabeljustus@gmail.com Thank you great Justus. Contact him for the following:

(1)If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3)You want to be promoted in your office.
(4)You want women/men to run after you.
(5)If you want a child.
(6)[You want to be rich.
(7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
(8)If you need financial assistance.
(9)Herbal care
10)Help bringing people out of prison
(11)Marriage Spells
(12)Miracle Spells
(13)Beauty Spells
(14)PROPHECY CHARM
(15)Attraction Spells
(16)Evil Eye Spells
(17)Kissing Spell
(18)Remove Sickness Spells
(19)ELECTION WINNING SPELLS
(20)SUCCESS IN EXAMS SPELLS
(21) Charm to get who to love you.
(22)Business spell.
Contact him today on:
drabeljustus@gmail.com,
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Stacey McCabe said...

I waited until I got married (at 26 no less!) to have sex for the first time with my husband. There's something so liberating about knowing he's the only one who's seen and known all of me. I'm thankful to have no regrets!

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