Would you rather see your groom before the ceremony or wait until you walked down the aisle? This bride and groom managed to take pre-ceremony photos without actually seeing each other: behind a door. Clever! Can you imagine how much their hearts must be racing?!P.S. The cutest photo of a groom seeing his bride.
(Photo by Gina Leigh, via PBFingers)
I'm a bit more traditional, I would rather wait until I walk down the aisle before seeing one another on the big day.
ReplyDeleteI saw my groom before the aisle! Surprisingly I was so nervous walking up to him to do our first look. I am glad I did it because everything else was a breeze with him by my side!
ReplyDeleteHow sweet! We didn't see eachother and the only photo I requested that my photographer get was Scott's face when I first walked down the aisle and not of me. He looks so handsome in the photo and it is now hanging on our wall in the family room :)
ReplyDelete: ) Photos like this always make me so happy. I'm planning a wedding right now and spend A LOT of time on wedding blogs. Some of my favorite photos are the first look ones. I've heard from so many people who did first looks who said it was the best decision because it calmed most of the nerves and they didn't lose any of the spark that came when seeing each other down the aisle. I can't wait for ours!
ReplyDeleteLovee this! Julie's blog (PB Fingers) is the best!
ReplyDeleteoh! this gives me goosebumps! what an amazing shot. i'm not sure if i'd want to spoil the surprise of seeing him (and vice versa) at the altar, but i also love the idea of spending a short time together before the wedding - it would probably help calm my nerves! :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweet photo! I love it. We choose to wait until I walked down the aisle. It's a breathtaking moment for the bridegroom.
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Walking down the aisle, it's more romantic. Brilliant photo!
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I did a "first sight" meeting before the ceremony in the chapel. It was so intimate and special...I'll never forget that time. He cried, I cried, and by the time the wedding started we were just excited!
ReplyDeleteI think I'd rather wait... and like in 27 Dresses, my favourite part of a wedding is seeing the groom's face when he first sees his bride coming down the aisle :)
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This is so sweet! (And, I agree, a genius wedding idea). I am traditional so I don't think I'd see my fiance before the wedding - but I'd for sure try to pull off a pic like this!
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That's such an adorable idea!
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I absolutely love this idea! I must get a shot like this for our wedding!
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We did the behind the door thing and it was SO fun. We didnt want to see each other before but just being able to hold his hand for a few seconds calmed my nerves.
ReplyDeleteThis photo warms my heart and also gives me butterflies thinking about what they must be feeling. The nerves, the excitement, pure love and hopefulness. As a newlywed myself, I can only imagine how my heart would be racing in that moment and how much feeling you could exchange in that touch. Thanks for sharing--this makes me send warm, loving thoughts towards my husband.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was younger I thought it was really romantic to wait until the ceremony to see each other, but now that I'm engaged and trying to plan the timing of the pictures, ceremony and reception it seems like it'll work out best for everyone to do pictures before the ceremony since we'll be having our ceremony and reception in the same location. Oh, and we just booked our location today, I'm SO excited! It's starting to feel real!!
ReplyDeleteI also know how much of a blubbering mess I turn into when overcome with emotion, so for the sake of everyone who will be at our ceremony I think it would be better for me to see my future groom before walking down the aisle. ;)
The couple in that photo look so giddy with excitement!
Awww..that is such a sweet idea and totally adorable photo. It melts my heart:) Happy Thursday, Joanna
ReplyDeleteI've seen that pre-wedding before (though I don't remember where). I wish I had taken photos like this when I got married. So cute. =)
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My husband and I were traditional, didn't see each other til the ceremony. And see he couldn't see a picture of my dress, he wouldn't let me see a picture of his tux either, so we were both surprised! I do really like this idea though, that picture is soooo sweet!!
ReplyDeletelove this!
ReplyDeletewe're planning on having our photographer capture our first look before the ceremony. i thought it would be a sweet touch to have that moment just for ourselves ;) (also help me calm my nerves!)
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My husband and I decided to see each other before the wedding. Our photographer was there out of our sight for the first minute (if that) to capture a little bit of the moment.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad we decided to see each other. I'd rather get the nervousness out before walking down the aisle. It was also nice being able to chat and compliment each other on our wedding outfits, since neither of us knew what the other's would look like.
When we first got engaged, I was certain that I wanted to do photos before the ceremony, in the interest of time. But once I had my dress, I completely changed my mind. I definitely want to wait until the aisle, and since we're outside and I have a looong walk across the yard before going down the aisle, I'm going to make him turn his back.
ReplyDeleteI think this is the best idea for a wedding photo, though—already sent to my photographer!!
Such a sweet picture!
ReplyDeleteAs a wedding photographer, I do love when the bride+groom do the "first look" before the ceremony (they both meet in spot of their own before we get going with the formal pictures and/or ceremony). There's so much else going on all day, this moment feels like taking a deep breath and exhaling slowly before we get rolling. Sometimes this is the only alone-time the bride+groom have until late in the evening!
Fun fact: in every wedding I've shot, the groom cried (in that sweetest, most sincere way) during the "first look".
oh wow that photo made me all emotional. She looks so cute too and you can see she just wants to pull the groom in!
ReplyDeletethanks for sharing :) xx
I do love this! That first look with my man, just the two of us, was one of the best moments yet.
ReplyDeleteThis is so beautiful. I actually think this idea is more romantic than the traditional waiting for the bride to walk down the aisle. I love this picture!
ReplyDeletecan you imagine the butterflies in your stomach??? i love this photo :)
ReplyDeleteMy fiance and I are walking each other down the aisle, I would love to do something like this before we see each other for the first time. 17 days and I'm a married girl!
ReplyDeletewe did a first look and i really loved getting to see alex alone (well, with the photographer) before the ceremony and getting to whisper to each other and smooch a little :) i think i would have fainted if i'd had to wait until walking down the aisle, i would have been too nervous! :)
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ReplyDeleteWe did a "reveal" before the ceremony. It was so much fun to have that little moment. It also allowed me to be more "present" sort of, walking down the aisle, being able to concentrate on all the smiling faces of our loved ones!
ReplyDeleteAnd the pictures we have of that moment are amazing.
So sweet! I love this!
ReplyDeleteTHAT'S ME AND MY HUSBAND in the linked pictures! How random and awesome! That was my FAVORITE moment of our wedding day, and that part of the video continues to make me cry. THANK YOU for linking to that. You just made my day.
ReplyDeletewhat a sweet photo!
ReplyDeletei love this photo idea, i recently made the same photo but at villa where the bride is standing on the top floor of the villa and the groom is looking up, link here
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being a wedding photographer i always try to talk people into seeing each other before so i can make more photos of them together:)
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What a sweet moment--I love this. Thanks for sharing, Joanna!
ReplyDeletei always have to hold back tears at this part of the wedding ceremony. even if the bride and groom have seen each other pre-ceremony it still is a magical moment when their eyes meet... the energy is so intense. pure happiness. so glad you shared this photo(such a unique, fun idea)joanna, adore your blog! and so happy for you orchid grey!!! :)
ReplyDeleteoh, this is so sweet.
ReplyDeleteThis is the sweetest thing ever.
ReplyDeleteHow adorable! I'll have to snag this idea. I'm definitely more tradtional in this case.
ReplyDeletewow, i love this photo! what a fantastic idea.
ReplyDeleteI definitely do not want us to see each other before we say "I Do." Along with being suprised about the sex of your baby...it's one of those great times in life where I think the torture of waiting actually pays off in a big, big way! I'm getting butterflies just thinking about it :)
ReplyDeletethat photo is amazing. what a great idea. I am definitelty all for waiting until the walk down the aisle, but this is a really cute idea that captures the couple's anticipation very well.
ReplyDeleteAw, what a lovely photo! My husband and I saw each other before the ceremony (and I felt much calmer that way), but I love this mix of modern and traditional. Also, I LOVE Julie's blog!
ReplyDeleteMy hubs and I decided we needed to see each other before. It was the only moment we had alone together (but with the photog) all day! Our photographer got my favorite shots of the day at that moment becausee it was just us, and our faces show the raw emotions we felt. It was a beautiful moment for us!
ReplyDeleteThis made me smile really big. Such a beautiful couple soon to embark on the journey of marriage ;)
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I love this photo! I would totally wait until I was walking down the isle for us to see each other.
ReplyDeleteWE did this EXACT photo at our wedding! And then I handed Paul a letter I'd written him from the other side of the door, and there's a picture of him reading it and smiling. One of my favorite photos of ours, ever.
ReplyDeleteWhat a cute idea. I like that a lot.
ReplyDeleteI was thinking that it would be nice to meet before the ceremony for a few reasons... Nerves aren't as high when your walking down the aisle, you get a lot of couple pictures without making guest wait after the ceremony to start the reception, and no running eyes, noses, etc from crying during the ceremony. =)
this photo is absolutely beautiful. personally, I can't decide if I prefer a first look session to see the groom, or if I'd rather wait until I'm walking down the aisle.
ReplyDeletebut seeing as I'm not anywhere close to getting married, it's not really a pressing issue at the moment. :]
Oh, I love Julie from PBFingers. Her blog is AWESOME. Great photo.
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ReplyDeleteI wasn't so sure about the whole 'before-the-ceremony' thing (and thought, "no way!" for my own wedding) but my little brother caught an incredible moment with one of his clients. here: http://stonecrandall.com/#1645313/Rachael-Mike-wedding (it's the little set of 4 photos). I love the look of anticipation on the groom's face!
cheers!
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A good friend of mine did this on her wedding day. Her picture was pricless. I have to show you, so sweet...
ReplyDeleteI would truly encourage every bride and groom to consider having pictures done before the ceremony. I worked for a wedding photographer for 18 years, he insisted on doing formal photos before the ceremony.
ReplyDeleteOver and over again I heard brides say it was the best part of the day....and he got those great surprise shots!
Very Sweet. My husband and I decided to eliminate stress and take the photos beforehand which I think worked out wonderfully. But this photo is absolutely precious!
ReplyDeleteso sweet :) i wanna wait till i'm walking down the aisle, but a photo like this is a great idea!
ReplyDeleteThis door photo makes my heart melt. I definitely don't want to see my groom before; however, I think first look photos are super cute and a great idea.
ReplyDeleteI think it is old fashion to make a big deal about seeing the bride before walking down the aisle. In fact, I think the first meeting is equally as special before or waiting. A photographer can still capture the amazement and emotions aisle or no aisle.
ReplyDeleteMy friends Laura and Joel did this right before their wedding ceremony two years ago. We had just popped a bottle of champagne when he came to hold her hand and tell her how excited he was. It was so sweet.
ReplyDeleteCombined with the bubbles and the excitement of the moment, I think we ALL felt butterflies. Funny how you feel those flutters when even your being knows it's true love.
I did this at my wedding and I loved it! To me it felt much more private and special to see each other BEFORE the ceremony, with only the photographer there.
ReplyDeleteWe chose to walk down the "aisle" together, and took all our portraits before the ceremony. That way, our guests didn't have to wait hours between the ceremony and the reception while we got photos done. After the ceremony, it was straight into the party. It was great!
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I am just so torn about this. I looked at your "first look" photos and they make me want to do it. They are so gorgeous and it looks so special. I just feel that tradition of walking down the aisle for the first look tugging at me.
ReplyDeleteI'm a photographer and "First Look" photos are a pretty big trend right now and some of my very favorite photos to shoot.
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I know of a couple who had a "first look" except that they were wearing blindfolds (so it wasn't really a " first look" at all, I guess). It was very sweet. That way, they got to talk and have that moment before but still have the magical walking down the aisle surprise. Plus, the two of them in blindfolds made for some adorable pictures :).
ReplyDeleteAw, my husband and I have the same photo! the moment our hands touched we both started crying. It made the moment we saw eachother as I was walking down the aisle that much more special.
ReplyDeleteI love this idea. I never had a 'real' wedding and kind of wish I could throw one to do these kinds of things. :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a great moment captured! So sweet.
ReplyDeleteI am all about my future grooms "look." When I walk down the aisle I want to see the emotions flood his face and get the awe factor. I think this picture is brilliant. Just the touching of hands before the big ceremony could provide the connection you need but still let the surprise come later.
ReplyDeletei am getting married next August and I definitely want to have a first look with my fiance. i think it will be a good hour of time alone that we can spend together before the madness begins! my photographer just posted a super sweet first glance picture between a bride and groom and it gave me such goosebumps! i love seeing emotion in a guy!
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omg i LOVE this. absolutely genius and now i'm all weepy hahah
ReplyDeleteI saw this photo from PB Fingers the other day! I love her! And this picture makes my heart melt, it gives me butterflies just looking at it. I think I will wait till he walks down the aisle, though I get why people do first looks as well.
ReplyDeleteSuch a sweet idea! There's definitely a lot of excitement and emotion to be captured before actually seeing each other.
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I waited to see each other, and it is probably one of the more anxious/exciting times of the day! I will never forget how I felt when I saw John standing up at the altar...I wouldn't trade that for a pre-photo sesh ever.
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this photo is the sweetest! love it
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I did "first look" photos before our wedding ceremony. I wasn't sure about it, but our photographers did an amazing job at creating this really intimate moment where I walked up to my soon-to-be-husband in a giant field of wildflowers. His back was to me as I walked out to meet him, so when he finally turned around, he was very surprised. It was really special for the two of us to have that moment before sharing our ceremony with friends and family. I still smile when thinking about it!
ReplyDeleteI love this idea and love the picture!
ReplyDeleteI definitely don't want to see the groom before I walk down the aisle. I know I could get some really good pictures of us but I'm just too traditional. I have loved all the pictures like this I have been seeing around on Pinterest. This I will definitely do!
ReplyDeleteso sweet! i dream of this :)
ReplyDeleteWow- anyone else notice just how last year (on the adorable, crying groom post) Joanna's post received 6 comments and now, at 3.5 hours in, we're at 80? Cup of Jo has blown up!!!
ReplyDeleteThat photo is so cute!!
ReplyDeleteI saw my hubby before the ceremony to take pictures. We did a nice reveal and was so glad we did. This way we were able to take it all in.
I'm absolutely in love with this shot! It's so sweet! I think I'd rather wait to see the groom. To me, I'd feel like it's add just another level excitment to an already special day! <3
ReplyDeleteWe had planned on seeing eachother but when the time came, he couldn't do it! Every picture I'm just slightly behind him- he basically only saw my silhouette- it was so cute and the pictures turned out great! I hated that he was going to see me, but we didn't have time for pics later so I was so happy. I saw him, but he didn't see me!
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this is a great idea. we opted to see each other:)
ReplyDeleteTop picture, very special.
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Oh my gosh what a cute idea! My husband and I didn't see each other before the ceremony but this definitely would have been something we'd do if we would have thought about it!!
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I did our photos before the ceremony and I recommend doing this to all the brides I talk to!
ReplyDeleteA lot of people who see our photos have to have that concept explained {they look at them and say "Well why are you BEHIND him?"} But once explained they can see the anticipation in his face. I love them!
My photographer was nice enough to put some of the photos up on her blog here:
http://genevievenislyblog.com/2011/06/13/wedding-at-the-joseph-saxton-gallery-of-photography-and-the-canton-club-at-the-joseph-saxton-gallery-of-photography-and-the-canton-club/
P.S. My word verification captcha thing is "precheez" I think that's the term for what you do right before taking a photo, right?
I've seen this done before a few times. I also recently saw this cute picture of a bride & groom before their wedding:
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Holding hands next to each but with their eyes closed - priceless!
aw, how sweet! Well, we went to the courthouse, so there goes the surprise! I loved our day, though: my husband came home around noon, we walked to a cafe and picked up espresso and blts for lunch, then got dressed up in the bathroom together and off we went!
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I saw each other before the ceremony and I am so thankful we made that decision. I know some people are a bit more traditional, but I was all nerves the morning of and seeing him and spending the hour before the ceremony together made everything better. I worried that the walk down the aisle would be less emotional, but the photos of us seeing each other at the ceremony show how moving it still was...Moving but with less mnerves=awesome. I still remember exactly what it felt like as I approached him on the porch for that first look and his reaction was so wonderful and sweet. I love this photo!
ReplyDeleteMy dearest lifelong friend married in May and she and her groom didn't want to see each other before the wedding either.... they did the same thing! We were all crying at the sweet sentiment of the scene :) I am in love with this idea!!
ReplyDeleteHere's the link to the photographer's blog (AWESOME photographer!!)... scroll down a little bit to see the 'doorway photos'.
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Adorable. Sweet as pie!
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Oh my, this nearly made me cry. Photos are amazing things, so much emotion, love, in this pic, especially his face, how beautiful. What a lovely image for me to start the day.
ReplyDeleteJulie and Ryan were the sweetest couple you can possibly imagine! This moment was incredibly special. I'm so happy to see it on A Cup of Jo!
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This is such a fantastic idea, I will probably try it when my big day comes :)
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Darling, what a cute idea. :)
ReplyDeleteCalmed us both right down to see one another for a short visit before the ceremony. We were still thrilled every step of the way, but didn't have to share with everyone those first looks in the eyes.
ReplyDeleteAnd the photo you sent made ME cry!
Whenever I do get married, I would probably do a first look during the shoot. But I think this kind of stuff is stunning. I just spent the last ten or so minutes looking for this album by this AMAZING photographer. You can find her (Leslee Mitchell) on facebook.
ReplyDeleteHere is one of the most amazing photos before this couple got married without even seeing each other. http://bit.ly/ps1vDU
Here is is a photo of the groom's face when he saw her for the first time. He actually had his head up and away from her until she got closer. They were together for ten years!! http://bit.ly/pFSVRv
Isn't that soooo romantic!?!
I am absolutely keeping this idea for my own wedding! The cutest thing...ever.
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Aww! I love this! I would love to come up with other ways to take pre-wedding pics without seeing each other, so fun :)
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my husband and i chose to share that first moment we saw each other privately (with the photographer tucked a silent distance from us to document it). this is the very first picture immediately after the photographer told my husband to open his eyes: http://actualizingamy.blogspot.com/2010/08/speaking-of-wedded-bliss.html
ReplyDeletetaking them beforehand took a lot of pressure off the walking down the aisle part, allowed for some really genuine, giddy and intimate smiles in our photos, and helped lessen the photo taking time between the ceremony and reception.
we loved it and i always recommend it to my engaged friends.
I really have no idea what I would I would pick for my wedding day. I love the idea of not seeing each other before and taking a picture like above. The idea of seeing my man before holds it own appeal too. I suppose it will be a choice between us.
ReplyDeleteNice picture!!!
ReplyDeleteI got married 3 weeks ago and we waited to see each other (that's common in the UK, where I'm from) but not in my husband's culture so all his family thought it was a bit odd!
ReplyDeleteIt was GREAT! I was so excited beforehand but not nervous. When I saw him, I practically ran up to him. He was - surprisingly - very emotional & later said he was glad he waited to see me. When he saw me he said I was beautiful and kissed me and he got told off hehe :) Before we were officially pronounced man and wife he tried to kiss me again but he was told he had to be patient :)
Sorry this comment is delayed. Just saw this! My husband and I did this on our wedding day. We were between a door like this, but we didn't even hold hands, we only said "I love you." The pictures of that moment are some of my favorite from the day!
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ReplyDeleteWhat a great idea!! I LOVE this photo. So clever. Thanks for sharing.
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Oh, I love this SO much! Just one more thing I want to add to my future wedding wish list.
ReplyDeleteWe did all our photos before the ceremony...we'd just been to a wedding where the bride and groom took TWO HOURS to show up to the reception...and there was no food or even wine or cocktails served until they got there! (I think I drank a gallon of water...)
ReplyDeleteSo that the first time my husband saw me in my wedding gown was when I walked down the aisle, we coordinated a private little moment before pictures in the church...we asked everyone to leave, he stood at the front and I walked down the aisle. We were able to have a private moment, say a prayer and relish the peaceful feel of the moment.
Then we took pictures and everything else was "go, go, go!" all day.
Best decision we made for the logistics of the day, but also for the moment we were able to share before the madness of the event!
I was honored to be the photographer for my best friend's wedding, and she also had this brilliant idea (although, as you can see, she got a bit nervous!):
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I just recently took a photo like this at a wedding I shot a couple months ago.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I will ABSOLUTELY see my husband before I walk down the aisle. I'm pretty non-traditional, but honestly, I just don't see the appeal of wedding. I think it would make me less nervous, and complicate things less to just see him earlier in the day.
nice pics !!! Bride is looking so beautiful, She has killer smile :)
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ReplyDeleteI would wait to see the groom until the ceremony not because of any wedding day superstitions, but just to delay the joy of seeing each other until we're both dolled up and anticipating the ceremony. I LOVE the idea of this shoot (both as a potential brideand a photographer.) What a way to make a connection and have some support during the whole day and still preserve the surprise of seeing each other until the big moment. Awesome!
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I love the idea! Really very clever! That just looks so sweet. I would want to see my groom before walking down the aisle, I would love to see him close straight to my eyes sincerely with all the love. While my lips are silently smiling uttering the words in my head "we're really getting married". Ah! How sweet!:)
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