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Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Wedding: The Ceremony, Part One

Now, for the best part: the ceremony! Here, Alex and his lovely mother Joyce are getting ready to walk down the aisle. Alex was all nerves, and told me afterwards that he didn't remember a thing about walking down the aisle. Not a thing! Alex was filled with both jitters and excitement. He kept saying, "It's a potent brew, it's a potent brew."
Meanwhile, my dad and I were one floor up. Suddenly, at the very last minute, just moments before walking down the aisle, I realized that I'd left my bouquet on a table upstairs. My dad -- in true 007 style -- raced up the stairs, two at a time, went into the bridal suite, found the bouquet, and ran back down....
...Then, completely calm and unfazed, he took my arm and gracefully led me down the aisle. It made me think of all the times my dad has helped me and been my hero during my childhood and adult life, and it made me tear up (again).
At this moment, my uncle, who officiated our ceremony, had just asked, "Who gives this woman to marry this man?" And my dad answered, "She comes of her own accord, with the full support of her mother and me." I loved how feminist and independent that sounded, while still honoring tradition and family. (It was my mom's idea.) Although it did, as you can see, make me laugh a little in the moment. And I love Alex's expression here!!!
Then I kissed my dad and took Alexei's hands.
One of my favorite parts of the ceremony was when we took a moment to thank our mothers for all that they've done for us and gave each of them a pink English rose. My mom started crying, which was so sweet...
...and Alex's mom looked so happy!

Next up: The readings...

(My dad's English morning suit from Baldwin. Rose petals from Flyboy Naturals)

(Photos by Max Wanger)

93 comments:

  1. so beautiful - love all the little details of the story!

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  2. Simply lovely, thank you for sharing in so much detail the events :)
    Looking forward for the next set of events :D

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  3. oh, how sweet it all looked! and how cozy and warm that room seems... i love hearing your story!

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  4. maggie12:22 PM

    your hair looks perfect when you are kissing your dad's cheek, i like that it is sort of beehived in the back...or whateve you would call that look. it is truly beautiful!

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  5. how beautiful! I love Alex's expressions!

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  6. Gorgeous photos. It's the emotion that exudes from them which is so wonderful! I can't wait to see more.

    Saskia x

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  7. Ugh, I've got tears in my eyes. You can feel all the love in the room just from the photos. I love how excited Alex looks in all the shots. So funny how boys get during sentimental moments. Congrats twelve times over!

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  8. I love how your story continues to be fun, inspiring and touching to read. "It's a potent brew" -I think I have a little groom-crush! ;)

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  9. Joanna, these photos are absolutely incredible. I have a lump in my throat and have tears welling in my eyes! There's so much love!

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  10. These photos are just astonishing, lady! And I'm loving the play-by-play of the whole wedding ...

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  11. Oh I love reading the story of your day! And I really like how you did the giving away bit - very classy and imaginative!

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  12. oh my gosh, I have tears welling in my eyes. I love your account of all the little details.

    The photo of you and your dad at the top of the stairs is great! And the "giving the bride away" is always my favorite part of weddings.

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  13. the setting is so romantic and intimate, with the candles and the rose petals-- I love it!! Keep it coming!

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  14. It's gorgeous, Joanna.
    My eyes are also misty over here.
    :]

    How beautiful.
    Max Wanger caught the best moments, as usual!

    <3 Grace.

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  15. Nicole12:48 PM

    Such loveliness! Thank you so very much for sharing. I secretly fear blogger is going to crash and we'll miss something. I shouldn't panic so much...

    Hey, what's the story behind Alexei's pocket square? Looks neat!

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  16. Thanks so much for sharing these! Your dress was so beautiful!

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  17. I've teared up at every single one of your wedding posts. And I love your dad's response about giving you away. So sweet and respectful.

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  18. Wow, every detail is so so lovely. You are glowing!

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  19. You looked gorgeous ! Absolutely stunning !

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  20. nicole, you are sweet :) alex's pocket square and his shirt were both from Lord Willy's, a British-inspired men's shop in Manhattan. xoxo

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  21. thank you for all these sweet comments!

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  22. Totally made me bawl :)

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  23. I got a little teared up myself :)

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  24. I just came across your blog. Congratulations on your wedding! You look gorgeous! The place where you got married looks stunning, and your wedding dress is beautiful!

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  25. I love how you described everything that was said, and every minute detail. I felt as if I was there watching the two of you exchange vows. And you look like a Princess - glowing and lovely! :)

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  26. simply stunning!!!!

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  27. Joanna, you two look so in love, I can practically feel happiness radiating from you both! I adore what you did for your mothers. Such a lovely sentiment and gesture! Oh, and you DEFINITELY chose the right dress :) It's gorgeous!

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  28. just perfection.

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  29. The photos are beautiful, congratulations girl!

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  30. Thanks for sharing all your intimate details - it's like we are there. You definitely made the right choice on the dress - you look AMAZING in it! Congrats!

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  31. So joyful! Loving this slow unspooling of the details! It's such fun.

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  32. I'm teary - thank you for sharing these intimate details of your wedding!

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  33. a few things.
    a) i teared up reading about your dad coming to the rescue.
    b) you were made for that dress and it was made for you.
    c) your mother is gorgeous!
    d) what a dreamy, romantic room!

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  34. 1. You look STUNNING.

    2. I love how your dad gave you away. So classy and modern.

    3. I am so NOT the girl who tears up and gets sappy at weddings, but I am actually tearing up over here in California!

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  35. just gorgeous!! every bit of it, love your flowers and your hair looks so whimsical!

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  36. Oh, these pictures are breathe taking. My best friend is getting married next summer, and your description of your dad giving you away made me cry. So beautiful. I forwarded it to her, cause she'll love it too!

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  37. beautiful pictures!

    Missy
    For all things fashion:
    http://thefashionfusion.blogspot.com

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  38. Joanna - this is just lovely, lovely! So happy for you! xx

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  39. oh my goodness (have i said that already?!) this is so beautifully romantic and it's making me tear up, and that's crazy cos i don't know you.

    you sound as though you have a great relationship with your pa. oh, and that makes me think of my dismal relationship with mine. you're very lucky.

    magical bountiful wonderful! bravo!

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  40. That's so beautiful! I love what your dad said :) And my husband remembers nothing of our ceremony... plus he was swaying from side to side and I kept rubbing his hands, whispering that it's okay, it's only just us :)

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  41. August29thAlso1:38 PM

    congratulations... it all looks so lovely! I got married the same day and time as you in NYC and have loved following your wedding story. I also love the fact that you haven't mentioned the hurricane that swept through the city that weekend! xx

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  42. You all look fabulous! and your mom's idea is wonderful. Los and lots of happiness to you !

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  43. So far your wedding story is perfect. You both look so happy.

    :)

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  44. ok could your parents be ANY cuter? i can not even handle this... :)

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  45. I always find it really emotional when I see photos of the Dad walking the bride down the aisle- they always look so proud and it's just so lovely.

    The ceremony looks perfect- as is your dress! x

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  46. ummm...i'm crying...that's all i have to say..

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  47. Looks like a romantic and lovely time!

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  48. your hair looks AMAZING!

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  49. Que guapos los novios! I would say it in english: Both of you look lovely!

    Best regards from a fan from Spain

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  50. these pictures are beautiful. you two make such a lovely couple! i can't wait to see more :) thanks for sharing!

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  51. these comments are so sweet. i'm really blushing :) and August29thAlso, how fun that you got married on the same day (and i love your username!!!) yes, haha, was such bad weather -- but that's good luck, right? :)

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  52. Such lovely readings!

    I love the keyhole back of your dress...

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  53. These are just too wonderful, J! It really makes me cry and giggle in excitement all over again. What a wonderful night!!

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  54. oh my.
    I can't believe I started to cry when I saw these.
    It reminded me of my own wedding, and we all know how moving those moments are.

    congrats again!

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  55. So sweet and beautiful!

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  56. Aw, these are so lovely that I teared up a bit. I absolutely love the pictures of you with your father. It reminds me how happy I was to have my father walk me down the isle (he was so ill just a week before the wedding, I didn't even know if he would be able to be there).

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  57. i'm tearing up reading the part about your dad walking you down the isle...and his 007 run to fetch your bouquet - as my dad is my hero too and i felt those same thoughts walking down the isle. not to mention, that is the SWEETEST shot of you and your dad!!

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  58. best dad giveaway line EVER

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  59. CONGRATULATIONS again!!!
    I love this: "She comes of her own accord, with the full support of her mother and me."

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  60. love the one of you walking down the aisle with your dad. your dress looks gorgeous from the back and I love all the petals and candles lining the walkway.

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  61. My favorite is the one of you and your dad walking down the aisle - priceless!

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  62. you look gooorgeous in the third from the bottom.

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  63. Your wedding has me all emotional!

    I love what your father said (it gave me goosebumps) and I love how you included the mothers (it brought tears to my eyes).

    Such a touching addition.

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  64. you're making me cry today! :) your dad sounds like mine...I wrote about him today too since today's his birthday. and these photos are incredible.

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  65. Hey there! Congrats on your wedding! Its absolutely beautiful! Thank you for sharing your most "once in a life time' special day! My mom's is also Joyce, which, I might add, is an unusual name here in South Africa! Thanks again for sharing! Have the most, absolutely, fabulous love life together!! xoxo

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  66. I am re-living that amazing day and so lucky to have such a truly lovely daughter - and, now, son-in-law!

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  67. Love how you handled the "Who gives this woman?" Brilliant.

    I'm so enjoying this recap! I know I'm hardly the first one to say this, but you have excellent taste.

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  68. oh i love this post. sounds like you both created a truly beautiful day to cherish. who doesn't love a wedding?!

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  69. oh joanna! you looked so beautiful in that dress! i'm so glad you picked the j crew gown :) congrats again on a wonderful day to-remember!

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  70. Soo beautiful! Thanks Joanna! You give so much inspiration! -- Kris

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  71. you're making me cry... congratulations to you and your family! as i read i feel like i'm slowly watching a short film...

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  72. lots of happy emotions captured - beautiful Joanna!!!
    Your mother in law looks like a lovely woman!

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  73. ooooh, the part about your Dad as your hero got me! I love how well your photographer captured the moments, Alex's expression IS priceless, and I love how you're hunched into a giggle...so cute!

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  74. i think i just started crying...

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  75. oh my gosh, i'm loving these posts, but this is my absolute favorite! your dad saving the bouquet, his words (those ARE good words, good job mom!), alex's expression, your beautiful mothers. aw, good day, good day.

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  76. You can add me to the list of people who cried whilst reading that! The part about your father really touched me. You looked truly beautiful too.

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  77. August29thAlso3:41 PM

    that's what they say, darling... we were up at the cloisters and it was so beautiful in the fog. wonder how many other weddings there were lighting up the city that night? anyway, congratulations, you look happy beyond words and i wish you many many glorious anniversaries to come!

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  78. i´ve started to read your blog when i saw somewhere your photos from your engagement. They made me tear up! So cute, so perfect. Since that day I´ve shared, here from Brazil, your expectations and hope to all to be great. Today when I read my feeds, and saw the "The cerimony" title, i've instant thought: "OMG! They did it!"

    read the sweets moments made me tear up. thats beautiful that you would share your moments with all the world! I'm thankful for that, this faraway. Because I can see true love still exists, perfect cerimonies also!

    Congratulations to you both and, from all my heart, i wish you the best!

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  79. These photographs are absolutely beautiful!! Max is a genious!! Your wedding was surely beautiful.

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  80. I am all weepy after reading your lovely posts and seeing all the beautiful pictures. Absolutely beautiful and so full of love! Congratulations!

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  81. I have no words for how beautiful and inspiring these posts have been. Congratulations and a million thanks for sharing with us. I wish you both the most beautiful of blessings.

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  82. oh my gosh... this is just so sweet!! all of it! And the photo's to go along with it... so, so moving and beautiful. (I love how your uncle began the introduction, and your father being the hero again, and the "giving away" of the bride - priceless - along with Alex's expression. I just love the details. Thanks for sharing them with us. :)

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  83. oh, I love what you guys decided on saying when asked "who gives this woman?". amazing!

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  84. Anonymous7:47 PM

    oh, Jo, you look so beautiful and so happy. i am so happy for you! i've been reading your blog for years, this brings tears to my eyes!

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  85. i absolutely love that you are so lovely and open and fun and celebratory that you're sharing your special sacred day with us. i love weddings and these magic moments are simply stunning. i can just imagine your father running up the stairs..

    oh how beautiful you are. a perfect pair, i'm sure. happy day to you and thank you for sharing all the deets with them. we are gobbling them up. xo.

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  86. You look so beautiful! This is making me very happy.

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